It appears her name Is Rhoda Cook not Rhonda.
This is in Public Tree on Ancestry.com, Pelletier/Lanzilotti/Fagnant/ Family Tree
I cannot vouch for its accuracy,since there is no proof provided,but it could be
possibly correct.Clarinda A. Clarry Gray 1783-1828 Newport Rhode Island.
is there daughter. Look for proof see what you can find.