check "edit marriage" (or whatever brings up the window that has marriage date/place in it) for the "off-again" wife. Probably the box to hide the marriage is checked. That box is intended only for use by the living (e.g., someone divorced, or widowed, who doesn't want to see their spouse's name everywhere). I spent a couple of hours recently trying to find the profile for my ancestor's wife (proven - marriage date & everything, and adm. for his will). Someone had hidden it. <sigh>