We might be connected although Warner is a pretty common name. My grandfather, Howard Warner, was married to a Jeanette Evelyn Lucas. They were married in Cook County, and had children which is relevant because if you are in your 40s, (born in the 70s?) you could not be their daughter. He died in 1959, but she would have been too old to have children, as she was born in 1908.
Why don't we talk offline and we can see if we can figure it out? I'll pm you.