Frances was born c. 1704 at Henrico (later Goochland) County, Virginia. Some believe she was a daughter of Abraham Cooke and Martha Clayton.[1]
Alternative birth date is 1712.
Alternatives for birth place: New Kent Co Va or Hanover Co Virginia.
Note: Goochland was formed from Henrico County in 1728. Hanover was formed from New Kent County in 1720-1721.[2]
Marriage and Children
Frances married before 1725 at New Kent County, Virginia to Edmund E Butler.[1][3] The marriage record has not been found. They may have married at New Kent County, Virginia They may have married in St. Martin's Parish, Hanover County, Virginia where her family attended church.[1]
William Butler, Capt, b c. 1738 (Regulator in NC); mar Phoebe Childers/Childress
Hannah Butler b c. 1741; mar Joseph Barksdale, moved to Georgia
Death and Legacy
Frances died in 1773 at the family farm, location St. James Southam Parish,[5] Cumberland County, Virginia Colony.[4]
She is buried at the Butler Family Cemetery in Cumberland County, Virginia.[6] This unsourced information is included on her Findagrave Memorial page: She was born between 1704 and 1709 in either New Kent County or Hanover County, Virginia. She was listed as his wife and executrix in the will of Edmund Butler I on 27 April 1747. She died after 1773 as it was reported in family letters of that year that she was in poor health, but improving. She was buried here in the family's burial plot that was laid out in her husband's will.
↑ 1.01.11.2 Kite, Daniel J., "Edmund E. Butler (b. ABT 1700)", May 14, 2010, Citing Ancestors and descendants of Thomas Sims of Culpeper County ... by Prewitt, accessed 5 May 2016.
↑ Spradlin, Freddie, 1994 Parishes of Virginia. Citing "Hening's Statutes at Large" (see vagenweb.org/hening/) and the list of parishes in "The Hornbook of Virginia History", 4th edition, edited by Emily J. Salmon and Edward D. C. Campbell, Jr., Library of Virginia, Richmond, accessed 5 May 2016.
↑ Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/116681675/frances-butler: accessed February 12, 2024), memorial page for Frances Cooke Butler (–), NO PHOTO Find a Grave Memorial ID 116681675, citing Butler Family Cemetery, Cumberland County, Virginia, USA; Maintained by Diane Gravlee (contributor 47083760).
DNA Connections
It may be possible to confirm family relationships with Frances by comparing test results with other carriers of her mitochondrial DNA.
However, there are no known mtDNA test-takers in her direct maternal line.
It is likely that these autosomal DNA test-takers will share some percentage of DNA with Frances:
I have been involved in this argument for many years, and have perpetuated much of this I fear.
I had a correspondent many years ago (40+) tell me that "she was a sister of William Cooke".
If true, then she must be the sister of John Cooke (William's brother as is proved by Partridge Store Accounts and YDNA testing), and, then, the daughter of Abraham Cooke & Martha Cleaton/Clayton of Old Rappahannock/New Kent/Hanover Counties, VA.
Further, the naming of a great grandchild "Martha Claten Butler" seemed to solidify the claim.
HOWEVER......
As Bob Baird rightfully notes on his website, relatives were not supposed to be involved in the settlement of the estate of an individual. Indeed, "William Cooke" witnessed the will of Edmund Butler, and, John Cooke was involved in the appraisal of the same.
So who was she?
There really was a "Martha Claten Butler". She was a daughter of Edmund Butler II and Frances Garrett of Hancock GA.
Edmund was a grandson of Edmund & Frances (Cooke?) Butler of Cumberland.
In a Butler transcript in my possession, created I believe by Pam Butler (?), the entry reads:
"Martha Claten Butler born December 22, 1800, died December 17, 1802"
Her sister, Susannah, was born Dec 14, 1802, died Dec 18, 1802.
Likely the two died of some sort of epidemic, AND, likely this info came from a Bible.
Other siblings have similar "exact, thorough" dates given in this transcript, which further supports that this was from a Butler Bible.
Again, "Martha Claten Butler":
Was she named for a 2xgreat grandmother?
Was she named for a neighbor?
Perhaps that name is in the GARRETT family?
But, given the assumptions made in the past, you can see why, for years, it has been believed that Frances was a Cooke and was a daughter of Martha Cleaton/Claten/Clayton (and Abe Cooke).
NOTE: honestly, we have no PROOF that Martha was a Clayton.
We have a grandson named "Claten Cooke"
We have YDNA testing that ties John Cooke to William Cooke (Claten's father) to Abraham Cooke, Jr, all sons' of Abraham (& Martha).
We have deeds showing "Abe & Martha Cooke" involved with the Clayton Estate.
We have a 1701 (1704?) Power of Attorney showing Hannah Mackalester (widow of William, it is assumed) naming "Abraham Cook of New Kent" "my loving son in law" as her Attorney-in-Fact". [I know, Bob: "Son-in-law" may have meant something else back then..........]
.....So, I expect that this too will be challenged at some point...........
We have yet to determine who Frances was:
Perhaps Baird is correct, but maybe the clerks were lenient this time?
Perhaps she WAS a Cooke, but not related?
Perhaps she was a CLAYTON. a sister of Martha's?
Perhaps she was a COCKE. This family resided on a tract between Bad Luck Creek (Edmund Butler) and Green Creek (John Cooke) in Cumberland.
Thomas Cocke owned a tract south of John Cooke. Indeed, their sons, Stephen Cooke and Anderson Cocke, ran a grist mill on 63 acres on Green Creek, later known as Simpson's Mill. Thomas was a son of Brazure Cocke; Thomas married Keziah, daughter of Charles Anderson & Elizabeth Chambers (more relations to my Cookes).
To make matters worse, Cocke is oft pronounced "Cook" in VA, and in England. I personally experienced this in Amelia County some years ago ("do you spell that Cooke or Cocke?"). In New Kent, the once "Cocke" family spells it "Cooke", the way it was pronounced.
I have no answer, and leave this to Butler researchers.
I have noted in my research and my posted trees that Frances may NOT be a daughter of Abe & Martha after all, given all of the current research and info.
Thanks Bob!
Jim Cooke
NOTE: James Powell Cocke's home, in the 1820 map of Amelia, is referred to as "J P Cook's".
Thanks everyone for this thoughtful discussion. Given that the theory about her parents seems so speculative, should we detach those parents and add a Research Note explaining the theory?
they do look like duplicates that need to be merged to me. The 1704 - 1773 dates are the ones to go with in the merge (text for the one born / died a generation earlier support a 1704 birth year). Thanks Philip!
Cooke_Butler is a compound surname of maiden and marital names which should not be. Therefore propose that the Merge be made towards Cooke-1135 Begin-37
Frances Butler, nee Cooke?
I have been involved in this argument for many years, and have perpetuated much of this I fear.
I had a correspondent many years ago (40+) tell me that "she was a sister of William Cooke". If true, then she must be the sister of John Cooke (William's brother as is proved by Partridge Store Accounts and YDNA testing), and, then, the daughter of Abraham Cooke & Martha Cleaton/Clayton of Old Rappahannock/New Kent/Hanover Counties, VA.
Further, the naming of a great grandchild "Martha Claten Butler" seemed to solidify the claim.
HOWEVER...... As Bob Baird rightfully notes on his website, relatives were not supposed to be involved in the settlement of the estate of an individual. Indeed, "William Cooke" witnessed the will of Edmund Butler, and, John Cooke was involved in the appraisal of the same.
So who was she?
There really was a "Martha Claten Butler". She was a daughter of Edmund Butler II and Frances Garrett of Hancock GA. Edmund was a grandson of Edmund & Frances (Cooke?) Butler of Cumberland.
In a Butler transcript in my possession, created I believe by Pam Butler (?), the entry reads: "Martha Claten Butler born December 22, 1800, died December 17, 1802" Her sister, Susannah, was born Dec 14, 1802, died Dec 18, 1802. Likely the two died of some sort of epidemic, AND, likely this info came from a Bible. Other siblings have similar "exact, thorough" dates given in this transcript, which further supports that this was from a Butler Bible.
Again, "Martha Claten Butler": Was she named for a 2xgreat grandmother? Was she named for a neighbor? Perhaps that name is in the GARRETT family?
But, given the assumptions made in the past, you can see why, for years, it has been believed that Frances was a Cooke and was a daughter of Martha Cleaton/Claten/Clayton (and Abe Cooke).
NOTE: honestly, we have no PROOF that Martha was a Clayton. We have a grandson named "Claten Cooke" We have YDNA testing that ties John Cooke to William Cooke (Claten's father) to Abraham Cooke, Jr, all sons' of Abraham (& Martha). We have deeds showing "Abe & Martha Cooke" involved with the Clayton Estate. We have a 1701 (1704?) Power of Attorney showing Hannah Mackalester (widow of William, it is assumed) naming "Abraham Cook of New Kent" "my loving son in law" as her Attorney-in-Fact". [I know, Bob: "Son-in-law" may have meant something else back then..........] .....So, I expect that this too will be challenged at some point...........
We have yet to determine who Frances was: Perhaps Baird is correct, but maybe the clerks were lenient this time? Perhaps she WAS a Cooke, but not related? Perhaps she was a CLAYTON. a sister of Martha's?
Perhaps she was a COCKE. This family resided on a tract between Bad Luck Creek (Edmund Butler) and Green Creek (John Cooke) in Cumberland. Thomas Cocke owned a tract south of John Cooke. Indeed, their sons, Stephen Cooke and Anderson Cocke, ran a grist mill on 63 acres on Green Creek, later known as Simpson's Mill. Thomas was a son of Brazure Cocke; Thomas married Keziah, daughter of Charles Anderson & Elizabeth Chambers (more relations to my Cookes).
To make matters worse, Cocke is oft pronounced "Cook" in VA, and in England. I personally experienced this in Amelia County some years ago ("do you spell that Cooke or Cocke?"). In New Kent, the once "Cocke" family spells it "Cooke", the way it was pronounced.
I have no answer, and leave this to Butler researchers. I have noted in my research and my posted trees that Frances may NOT be a daughter of Abe & Martha after all, given all of the current research and info.
Thanks Bob!
Jim Cooke NOTE: James Powell Cocke's home, in the 1820 map of Amelia, is referred to as "J P Cook's".
edited by Jim Cooke Jr.
Thank you.
https://www.wikitree.com/g2g/349782/disputed-cook-e-parentage-of-frances-butler