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Lavinia Matilda Dunn was born 26 August 1881 to parents James Dunn Sarah Henderson. She was never listed on a census record in the household of her parents since she was born after the 1880 census; the 1890 census was destroyed and she was married in 1895. That is the year she and Henry Robert Butter married.[1] Henry was 25 and Lavinia was very young at 13 and a half years old. She was the third of fifteen children. She said her life was much easier being married and just taking care of her own home for the next few years. Sadly, her first baby, a girl, was stillborn when Lavinia was fifteen. Infant Daughter was born and died 23 December 1895. She has a small marker next to her parents in the Butter Cemetery in Forest Hill, Louisiana. Her next child was born when Lavinia was eighteen and was the first of her seven children who lived to adulthood.
Even though Lavinia was happy to leave her birth home to tend her own, she was very close to her parents and siblings as well as her husband's family. They all were born and reared in the same small community. Most of them married, raised their children in Forest Hill; when they died they were buried in the Butter Cemetery.
Lavinia and Henry R Butter are enumerated on the 1900 census along with their infant son, Howard Butter. [2]
The 1910 census has the family name as Button instead of Butter and has Lavinia as Lawnie. Lavinia and Henry now have four children listed on the census. The youngest son, Leo, has been left off. The family is listed at the bottom of the page and Leo should have been on the top line of the following page but he is not. Henry is listed as 40 and Lavinia as 27 years old. They have been married for 15 years. Lavinia has given birth to six children and five are living. Henry is a farmer and Lavinia is keeping house. [3]
The Butter family is missed by the census taker in the 1920 census. There would have been three more children in the family. They lived in the same place and still farmed. The family had changed by the 1930 census. They lived in the same community but had moved to the lake where Henry rented out boats and is listed as the janitor for the club house. While there, Lavinia would cook the fish brought in by the fishermen so they could enjoy eating their catch. Only two children were living at home: Dallas was 25 years old and working at the gravel pit; Doris, the youngest, was 12 and attending school. [4] While they were living at the lake, their house was rented out and it caught fire and burned down. Henry, besides being a farmer, was also a carpenter. He and son Dallas rebuilt their house in the same spot the original house stood. This second house was smaller and more modern since the family unit was smaller.
In the 1940 census just Lavinia and Henry are in the home and they have moved from the lake back to their property. They lived in the same place in 1935. Henry is 70 and Lavinia is 57 years old. This is the last census where either of them appear as Henry died in December 1941 and Lavinia died in February 1949. [5]
Lavinia died 3 February 1949 in Lecompte, Louisiana as that is where the nearest clinic was located. [6]
Lavinia Dunn Butter is buried in the Butters Cemetery in Forest Hill, Rapides, Louisiana where her husband, parents, inlaws, siblings, four children, and grandparents are also buried.[7]
Lavinia Dunn Butter is named on death certificate for son Leo Butter.[8]
Lavinia Dunn Butter was my grandmother. As noted above she had 14 siblings and 7 children and 17 grandchildren. I did not get to know her for very long as she died when I was four and half years old. I do remember her. She had a great love for her family and she passed that trait to her children. She loved for her family to visit and she would travel by bus or train and visit them. She attended every birth of a grandchild. There were four us born in 1944 so she was busy that year! She loved to go shopping when she visited one of the children who lived in a town large enough to have nice stores. Mostly, she would just window shop. My mother, her daughter-in-law, once asked her if she ever thought she would get too old to wish for and admire things. She replied that anyone who did might as well be dead. I like that - she and I would have made a great team! Virginia Butter Fields 13 October 2019
Lavinia and Henry had a full term stillborn baby girl on 23 December 1895. She has a small tombstone next to her parents in the Butter Cemetery. She was not named, the stone just says Infant Daughter of Mr. & Mrs. H.R. Butter.
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