I believe, because of the 1880 census having Horace LILLY, listed as son-in-law and single, that Phebe A.'s BIRTH name was Culver and she married a Lilly, had Horace in 1863 and then remarried A Judson.
Here is a possible...
1870 Starkey, Yates, New York
Age 30
Birth Year (Estimated) 1839-1840
Birthplace New York
Page Number 49
L L Andrews M 60 New York
Ann E Andrews F 58 New York
Phoebe Culver F 30 New York
Citing this Record: "United States Census, 1870," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M828-SNB : 12 April 2016), Phoebe Culver in household of L L Andrews, New York, United States; citing p. 49, family 441, NARA microfilm publication M593 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.); FHL microfilm 552,619.
Biography
1880 Place Hartford, Van Buren, Michigan
Judson DYER age: 47 NY Traveling Drugs Agent VT VT
Phebe A. DYER Wife M Female W 39 NY Keeping House NY NY
May DYER Dau S Female W 15 MI At Home NY NY
Nellie DYER Dau S Female W 5 MI NY NY
Judson DYER Son S Male W 3 IL NY NY
Horrace LILLY Son-in-law S Male 17 OH Laborer VT NY
Horace HAS TO BE Judson's STEPSON- Horace is listed as SINGLE/17/and no wife listed
Here she is in 1900 with the daughter, Nellie.
1900 Precinct 8 West Town Chicago city Ward 10, Cook, Illinois
Age 60
Marital Status Married
Children: 6 / Number of Living Children 3
Marriage Year (Estimated) 1870---Years Married 30
Birth Date Nov 1840
Birthplace New York
Father's Birthplace New York---Mother's Birthplace New York
Phoebe Dyer Head F 60 New York
Nellie L Dyer Daughter F 26 Illinois School Teacher
Citing this Record
1910 Precinct 8 West Town Chicago city Ward 10, Cook, Illinois
Phoebe is claiming Widowed.
1920 Chicago Ward 19, Cook (Chicago), Illinois
Age 79
Marital Status Married
Birth Year (Estimated) 1841
Birthplace New York
Father's Birthplace New York---Mother's Birthplace New York
Sheet Letter A--Sheet Number 4
Nettie Dyer Head F 45 Illinois
Phoebe Dyer Mother F 79 New York
Citing this Record
This person was created through the import of dyermaeettaaug2010.ged on 11 September 2010.
While processing relationships in the gedcom some additional information was found which may be relevant.
Could not parse date out of AFT 1868.
@F977@ FAM
Husband: @I24349@
Wife: @I10843@
User ID: 657922EDFA8C0448BBD9794535DE35EC4572
Child: @I5637@
Child: @I763@
Child: @I23722@
Marriage:
Date: AFT 1868
Sources
"United States Census, 1900," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MS37-GZJ : accessed 13 January 2019), Phoebe Dyer, Precinct 8 West Town Chicago city Ward 10, Cook, Illinois, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) 255, sheet 14A, family 254, NARA microfilm publication T623 (Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 1972.); FHL microfilm 1,240,255.
Source S125
Title: Personal E-Mail & Letter (Denise Martelle) 5/8/00
Abbreviation: Personal E-Mail & Letter (Denise Martelle) 5/8/00
Note: Information was sent to her by a Great Uncle.
NS231803
"United States Census, 1920," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MJQW-ZJ2 : accessed 13 January 2019), Phoebe Dyer in household of Nettie Dyer, Chicago Ward 19, Cook (Chicago), Illinois, United States; citing ED 1104, sheet 4A, line 29, family 65, NARA microfilm publication T625 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 1992), roll 330; FHL microfilm 1,820,330.
"United States Census, 1880," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MW3J-Y7L : 22 August 2017), Judson Dyer, Hartford, Van Buren, Michigan, United States; citing enumeration district ED 214, sheet 474B, NARA microfilm publication T9 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.), roll 0608; FHL microfilm 1,254,608.
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