Assuming the Dutch Settlers Society Year book properly quoted the will of Jan de Vries (John Frese), there should be little doubt as to who her father was. In it, he names as his daughter, Annetje, wife of Omi de la Grange.
Further assuming that Jan and Margarieta and Annetje and Abeltie was the family who arrived on the Gilded Otter in 1660, Annetje is very much too young to have been the mother of Joost de la Grange and son Johannes was likely born a few years after his posted birth year of 1664. Is there any evidence Joost was a part of the family of Omi and Annetje? What about Johannes' year of birth?