The Complete Peerage, vol. 6, p. 56 states that she died on 4 Oct 1758 and was buried 11 Oct that year at Hackney, Middlesex, it seems hardly possible that she died in Virginia in 1765 and was a gateway ancestor.
Although The Complete Peerage doesn't cite any sources for their dates, it is considered a much more reliable source than thePeerage.com or the Ancestry family trees, which seem to be the only sources currently on her profile.
Unless someone can provide further reliable research around the 1765 date, then I have to assume that either someone has made it up, or there was a Mary Forbes who died in Virginia in 1765 and it has been erroneously matched with the Countess of Granard.