That is the problem Bridget is married to Alfred Thomas is her father inlaw when I added Alfred no other one came up as for Thomas I didn't do any thing and I messaged the other person that had him I still haven't heard any thing and have messaged a few times all I can think of is to delete my tree I gave birth death and marriage details, as for Catherine Ayre Alfred mother it was sugggested it was wrong because the details of her name was spelt Aire in those days they wrote it as it sounded it wasn't the parents or couples filling in the paper work all this happened because I filled in details for Alfred and that is why I won't merg Thomas as it is wrong. The only way I know to fix is to delete my tree Dianna