Also, there is a lot of misleading information on the internet. I just read through his will and he names only 5 children. Ephraim Jr, would not have been named as he did die the year before his father. The children named are Jonathan, Martha Smalley, Mary Kimberly, Hepzibah Goodrich and Sarah Goodrich. I think if those children are documented, we may find something to prove the wife's name. Also, I normally turn to DAR records, and nothing is in that file to prove her name either.