I think I've got Caleb connected - we'll see tonight after the links process.
Rats - I might have done my last change after the update time. We'll give it till tomorrow. There are only 3 relatives to reach a connection, so I'm sure this will work. It's his aunt with the last name of "Cooper" who's already connected. Fingers crossed...
And, the links are updated and he's now connected within 30.