hi tom, I'm not sure how it happened that you aren't profile manager.. But click on your link above to Cleo Grissom and where you see all of this
Mother of [private daughter (1920s - unknown)], Virginia Marie Grissom, [private daughter (1930s - unknown)], Tom Grissom Jr. and [private son (1930s - unknown)]
No Profile Manager [adopt this profile]
Jones-39599 created 2 Jan 2016 | Last m
Click on [adopt this profile]
that should solve the issues, also go to your dad's as well, and also do the same, I see that you are not profile manager of either of them.
After this I would go thru and check your direct lines in particular - going through each of their sets of parents, and just look to see if you are profile manager on the ones you created. If not, if they say No Profile Manager, then just click the adopt profile on all that need doin.
Remember wikitree is a 1 tree for all members, with one profile for each person who lived. so the further back you go, the more likely you are to find there are other profile managers within your direct lines. This doesn't mean you can't add to the profiles, you can, but if you feel any major changes need to be made always contact the profile manager (private messg thru the link on the profile(s) in question).
hope this helps