FIrst thing, you find the profile with the lowest-numbered ID. Then you merge the other into that one. First give each profile both wives, which will make them essentially identical.
Go to the "initiate a Merge" option on the profile of J-187. Add J-22 as the final ID.
Then Compare, to make sure they are the same.
Then select MERGE.
After which, you'll have to wait on the 2 profile managers to approve or not.