Anna, this is very sweet of you to say such nice things about me. I am sorry it took me a couple of days to answer you, but I have been away from WikiTree. You do not have to work up any nerve to mention your grandfather's secret situation to me. Just send me a message - after all, we are all related here.
You were so very nice to work with, it was very much my pleasure. Welcome to WikiTree, and never worry about our intentions here. We are all here to help one another.
Please send me another message. I am really interested now.
Have a blessed day.