Oh and to answer the question of why Ethel Bisbee does not show up in your tree, is because she is not currently connected to the Wikitree Global tree.
She has no parents, no spouse and no children with whom she can be connected.
Wikitree does not so the autopropagation that Ancestry does.
So you will have to connect ethel to her spouse or to her children in order to be connected to you.
Assuming that Ethel Bisbee was married to Harry Bisbee, I have connected them for you. But now the DNA information will take anywhere from 24 to 36 hours to be added to her profile. If this is wrong, please let me know and I will unlink them for you.
Your next step will be to add Ethels family. The DNA details cannot be propulgated to family members if there are no profiles.