I updated Abraham / Abram's profile with more census. Electa is Abram's sister, not his mother. She lived with her father. I added the family list with the census to the biography section, found another marriage source. One marriage source had ages, birthplace and parents but only initials for Henrietta. Other one had her full name.
Abram and Henrietta got married Jan 1860, she is with him in 1860, living with his father and siblings, in 1880 with same children as seen in 1870 census where 'Jane' is mentioned, so name in that census is wrong, as is the birthplace which lists New York, instead of Virginia, which is on Marriage source and 1880 Census.