I know tilda vance marcum, she was my grandmother too. her father was marion vance. I knew he married a rebecca but didn't know her last name. thought it was hatfield. grandma said she was anderson hatfields granddaughter. Tilda had several children: brady, ethel, homer, goldie, rose, shirley, june. Which one is your friend's parent. I knew them all except for brady. only met ethel once. knew goldie's children, rose's children, june's children, homer's children. brady and ethel never had children as far as I know.