Brad, how about this instead for the help page?
For example, let's say you want Category: USS Ajax (AR-6), United States Navy to be listed in Category: United States Navy Ships but under A, not U.
Instead of putting the usualCategory: United States Navy Ships]]on the [Category: USS Ajax (AR-6), United States Navy category page, use [[Category: USS Ajax (AR-6), United States Navy|Ajax]].
The part after the pipe (|) is the sort key that specifies what the category should be sorted as in that category.