So I just have to share this, as I would hope that others might also receive a similar email. I will make it a bit generic, so that no one is called out.
I got an email the other day. The sender was not logged into WikiTree at the time, but she did identify herself and the gist of the email was that I had created a profile of a member of her family, and she wanted to know why I did that, and was clear that she was aware that I was DEFINITELY not a member of HER family.
Now frankly, I could have paid more attention to her tone, been offended, and responded back in a rude manner. I suppose some would agree that it would have been somewhat justified, as she took a bit of an accusatory tone to start with, so responding in kind would have been appropriate. However, I decided to approach this in a completely different manner. I saw this as a potential opportunity to open up a door that might perhaps build a bridge instead of set things on fire.
So I responded back that this was actually a profile of a cousin of mine, and while we were not super-closely related, we were 5th cousins, which was not all that far off, and I helped identify our common ancestor. I then invited her to join WikiTree, and I'd be more than happy to discuss having her manage any direct members of her family that I might currently be managing, and then I winged the email off in hopes of a reply.
Well - I'd like to say that I heard back, she joined WikiTree, and we're best of friends now. But reality is, I haven't heard a word back. Zip. Nada. But that's OK - hopefully I've built a bridge there that one day she might cross, and perhaps then I'll see her here on WikiTree and welcome her with open arms. In the meantime, I'll keep flinging welcome letters out to anyone who asks questions, and whether they join or not, at least it's an open invitation and all I can do is give them that opportunity - I certainly can't make them come.
So anyway, hopefully others have had similar opportunities and taken then, and if not, well - there's always a next time.