Question of the Week: What's a favorite story you have of a paternal ancestor? [closed]

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My paternal grandmother Pearl McCleery Lovelace had been taught frugality by her father Thomas McCleery, and she wanted very much to pass this on to my father. She had my father to save his pennies, and each month they went to the bank. My father at an early age would reach up to the cashier window, and he would give his pennies to a lady that worked at the bank. He was only eleven when the banks across the United States folded, and all of his pennies savings were lost. He told his mother that he would never put another penny in the bank, and his mother said, "I don't think he ever did." This is a 1929 public domain photo of a bank closing.

 

by Alexis Nelson G2G6 Pilot (851k points)
What a magnificent photo Alexis, so Pearl was taught frugality, by her father I think that is great

How sad she lost all the money it most have been terrible
Thank you Susan for your wonderful comment. In the 1930 US census Pearl and my grandfather had a family of three as boarders, a single man as a boarder, and her father all living with her. She had gone from living well to trying to make money anyway she could, because they had lost all their money.
So this person no longer put money in the bank when the FDIC insured deposits?
No, I guess not. From letters it looks like he and my mother lived pay check to pay check, and he was KIA in WWII at age 26.
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For this week's topic I have chosen a paternal ancestor of my wife, Hinrich Pump (1731-1815), son of Hans Pump (1694-?) and grandson of Johan Pump.

He was married twice. His first wife was Margaretha Hedwig, née Pump (1739-1779), daughter of Hans Pump (1701-1784). This Hans Pump was son of Hinrich Pump.

His second wife was Catharina Pump (1755-1790).

And all the Hans, Hinrich and Johann Pump and also Margaretha Hedwig Pump had brothers named Hans, Hinrich, Johann or Hans Hinrich or Johann Hinrich Pump.

And all these relatives lived in the two villages Oering and Seth of the Kirchspieös Sülfeld in the district Segeberg in Schleswig-Holstein.
by Dieter Lewerenz G2G Astronaut (3.1m points)
Well, I can only imagine,

But, my relatives the Jan we van Rensburgs lived on farms right next to each other for at least a century and then all of sudden all those farms were sold. Not one left.
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I think I've told portions of this story before for other weekly g2g posts, but it's what came to mind-

When my great-grandfather, J. Lawrence Jurgensen, was a young man, his father, Alfred purchased a poultry farm in South Haven, Michigan, & took Lorry & his brother Alfred Jr to go work on the farm during the summers for a few years around 1930, leaving the rest of the family (Alfred & his wife didn't have a happy marriage- I wrote about this extensively for last week's QOTW) back in Chicago. On one of these trips, Lorry had been sent into town, probably running errands of some form or another, & was approached by a man who turned out to be the Chicago Mayor William Hale "Big Bill" Thompson, the infamously corrupt friend of the Chicago Mob. Thompson apparently told him he had a "summer home" in South Haven (we think the property probably didn't belong to him; exact information regarding who owned it is uncertain), & went on to explain that he needed to hire someone to put a coat of paint on a portion of the house, offering to pay Lorry some extra cash if he'd be willing to do so. Lorry accepted, & found himself painting one side of this home where Thompson was staying, when he witnessed, unable to hear them clearly, a meeting between Thompson & Al Capone in the yard area behind the house, surrounded by men carrying machine guns- though very curious, he didn't want to get into any major trouble, & continued painting the house, suspecting that he'd been specifically placed in a manner such that might cover some sight of the backyard meeting from the main road. The exact details surrounding what happened afterward are a little vague, but he ended up being hired more regularly as a chauffeur for a man working, possibly as some sort of secretary, for Thompson; my grandmother seemed to remember the name Perbohner, though we're not sure if that was actually the man's name- Lorry's job would be to drop off Perbohner (assuming that's the right name) at the train station in Chicago, & then proceed to drive all the way to the station in Michigan to pick the man up at the other side of the line, having to outrun the train. Apparently, years later, when he had children, Lorry took my grandmother & her brother to see the old chicken farm in Michigan, & took great pleasure in being able to show off his ability to beat the train to the other side.

I've collected quite a number of stories about Lorry; he has a more-complete biography than many of the profiles in my close family (I'm slowly making my way through them), so there are a couple more there.

by Thomas Koehnline G2G6 Pilot (102k points)
A great story. I imagine it would be even better as told by Lorry himself. Thanks for sharing.
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The best story on my paternal side is probably my 13th great grandfather (George) "The Crowner" Gunn ( Gunn-875 ), born in the beginning of the 1400s, and killed at the "Battle of Champions" (aka "The Battle of Saint Tears") in either 1464 or 1478. ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Champions )

In Caithness, Scotland, Clan Gun and Clan Keith had been feuding for a long time.  Supposedly, the feud began when Dugald, Chieftain of the Keiths, kidnapped Helen of Braemore, daughter of Lachlan Gunn, who was betrothed to Alexander Gunn. He abducted her on the night before the wedding, and killed Alexander.   He imprisoned her in Ackergill Tower, and she committed suicide by throwing herself off the roof of the tower.

The feud continued for many years, additionally feulled  by the fact that the Keiths, in favor with the King of Scotland, were taking over lands that had been held for many generations by Clan Gunn.

The Chief of Clan Gunn, "the Crowner" (or King's representative) in Caithness, and the Chief of Clan Keith agreed to settle the feud, once and for all,  with a set battle between 12 Gunn mounted warriors and 12 Keith mounted warriors.  On the appointed day, the Gunns showed up with 12 warriors, and the Keiths showed up with 24 warriors, 2 on each horse. (The Gaelic word for a mounted warrior was literally "horse with an armed man", so the Keiths claimed the "12" referred to the horses, not the men.)  Needless to say, most of the Gunns were killed (including the Crowner and at least two of his sons).  But most of the Keiths were also killed.

Instead of settling the  feud, this just threw fuel on the fire, which continued for centuries.  In the early 20th century, there were still Gunns who refused to be "on speaking terms" with Keiths, and vice versa.

In 1978, on the 500th anniversary of the battle, the Chief of Clan Keith and the Commander (now Chief) of Clan Gunn, signed a "Bond and Covenant of Friendship" at the site of the chapel of St Tears.

by Janet Gunn G2G6 Pilot (158k points)
Thank you for sharing, Janet. There is nothing like a feud to spice up the family history. In any case, it's nice that the two sides were able to end the feud after 500 years. Better late than never.
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2G Uncle Waldo Truslow was That Kid we've all heard about as a cautionary tale.  One warm April afternoon in April of 1896, young Waldo was playing with matches in the leaves under the porch of the home the family was renting in Savannah, GA.  The ensuing conflagration destroyed not only the family's house, but that of a neighbor and damaged an additional nearby house.  Young Waldo was rescued thanks to the efforts of neighbors and his sister.  Nobody was killed in the blaze, but Waldo and his rescuers all suffered moderate to severe burns.   

by Dorothy O'Hare G2G6 Mach 8 (87.9k points)
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My Quaker ancestor Jonathan Pitts ran naked through the woods to escape an Indian attack.
by David Hughey G2G Astronaut (1.7m points)
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The story goes that my 2x-great-grandfather William Alexander McFatter did NOT want to fight in the Civil War, so to avoid conscription he hid along the riverbanks of the Mississippi River and his wife snuck him food.

by Jessica Key G2G6 Pilot (315k points)
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I'll try to keep this one as PG as possible. Even though I have no memories of my grandpa Marco, I've heard plenty of stories about him over the years. This one is especially hilarious.

When my brother was little, my grandfather and him always played together. One day, Marco was showing him some vino from the old country. My brother being the adventurous type wanted to know what wine was like.

Marco must have laughed because he took a wine bottle, filled it with water and the two ended up sharing it. My grandma Ollie and my parents caught them and they all had a great laugh.

I wish I had a picture of that. Grandpa Marco had his moments. I don't think my brother remembers the story. But, I remember hearing about it many times growing up.

I have plenty of stories involving my dad. But, I think I like that the most. Just picture an Italian guy sharing "wine" with a six year old. =)

Another favorite story of mine involves my great-grandfather Vincenzo taking my grandparents (Marco and Olympia) to Italy and ultimately to Switzerland where they went to the wedding of Vincenzo's niece, Caterina. I have also heard that story all of my life, too. My parents would have gone but they were dating at the time and in med school.

Fast forward years later that same niece contacted me on Myheritage as her daughter is a DNA match. We talked and shared pictures. She showed me a picture from her wedding and in the group photo were my grandparents AND Vincenzo! 

As an added bonus, we had a photo from her brother's wedding in a metal box. We had no idea who the people were and I showed her the pic. It was her AND her brother who was also named Marco.

How's that for amazing coincidences?

by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (766k points)
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At age 2 my father Bert was living with his family in Marsh Harbour, Abaco, Bahamas.  He became deathly ill, and his family surmised that he had contracted malaria.  My grandfather Benny instructed his oldest son Rupert (age 17) and daughter Una (age 15) to take Bert to the hospital in Nassau in their 18 foot sloop by sailing one hundred miles south over open ocean.  They had a compass and a kerosene (Dietz) lantern.  Aunt Una and my father were below deck during the night when they were hit by a tremendous squall.  Even with their limited experience, they were fortunate to make it safely into Nassau Harbour the next morning.  Had they not, my family's history would be vastly different.

https://www.wikitree.com/treewidget/Roberts-7102/300

by Peter Roberts G2G6 Pilot (705k points)
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Thank you, Peter, for sharing this story. I love stories about sailing in the Bahamas. BTW, I did not have to go very far on the Roberts family tree to find names, Lowe and Higgs, which also appear in my family tree. The DNA lists also feature more family names in common with my family. So many people from the Bahamas are related in some way.
After reading your reply, I thought I’d test your theory of many people from Bahamas being related. Yes, we are also related. It’s a small island after all. :)
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When he was 18/19, my paternal great-grandfather Luther Adolf Diedrich of Hamlin, Monroe County, New York got a railroad/contractor job in St. Lawrence County. He set off for Ogdensburg in his car and only managed to get as far as Red Creek, Wayne County before it broke down. He panicked as he was fairly far away from home at this point but was also still a long way away from where he needed to go.

While panicking, a man who lived in the area came up to him and asked him what was wrong. My great-grandfather told him the situation and the man invited him into his house, where he fed him and then offered to drive him the rest of the way up to Ogdensburg (for reference this drive would take around 2.5 hours nowadays). The man did just that, and drove him practically to the front door of where he needed to be.

My great-grandfather asked for his name, thanked him, and they went their separate ways. He came to realize later that the man had given him a fake name, and my great-grandfather spent the rest of his life trying to figure out who had helped him out that day.

by Stephen Sanders G2G6 Mach 1 (17.4k points)
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I grow up with my grandfather William HALL br in Port Gibson, MS 1902. He was the owner of a small moving company in Chicago, but he was unable to read and reading his wife handled the paperwork for the business Hall Express.  Every year he would take me and my sibling and the neighorhood kids to Brookfield Zoo.  He would load us all in his moving truck, not a pick truck,,,the big truck.  We all had the a great  time riding in the back laugh and trying to hold on it was great fun, with all of my siblings and friends.  Miss my Granddad.....

by Connie Tensley G2G Crew (860 points)
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My great grandfather ,  John Henry Isleman had moved his family to Cameron, Marshall, West Virginia , USA between 1882 and 1900 , He was part owner of a flour mill during his residence there til he passed away , He is mentioned in the Cameron town history here is a link to a book that is free online view , As it mentions that John Henry and a man with the surname of Hagan were the owners 

The History of Cameron, West Virginia

Except for my dad's older brother , the rest of his siblings including him were born there ,but when John Henry died they did move back to Ohio in town called Toronto in Jefferson county 

My great grandfather also was born with surname of Iceman , at some point during the later half of 1800's changed his name to Isleman, but his ancestors had changed the spelling and the surname from various versions of Isenmann, Eisenmann who originally came from Bas-Rhin which is located in France now I believe but I believe they spoke German ,  They were Lutheran's were came to Colonies in 1749 , settled in Westmoreland PA , they were involved in starting a church which here is a link to a book with history of it 

History of old Zion Evangelical Lutheran church in Hempfield Township, Westmoreland County, Pennsylvania

Below is a Picture of my great grandfather , John Henry , his wife, Mary Huff Isleman, my grandfather , Charles Edward Isleman 

by Janine Isleman G2G6 Pilot (102k points)
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My Dad, Burton R Drum was a product of the Greatest Generation and a Renaissance man.  His thirst for knowledge lasted for his entire 91 years. He was a TBM Torpedo Bomber pilot in the Pacific during WWII and an airline and FAA Check Pilot the remaining years of his career. My favorite story, Dad was in Portugal in the early 50s training the Portuguese Navy how to fly a particular plane and was in the Officer's Club one night. In walks J. Paul Getty with his cronies.  Dad goes up to the bartender and orders a round of drinks for everyone in the club.  Please with himself he stated he could boast for the rest of his life that he bought the richest man in the world at drink.  There are other stories but this one always made me chuckle

Randy Williamson

by Randy Williamson G2G5 (5.9k points)
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My father, William N Roberts, attended college to be an electrical engineer but jobs were scarce during the depression. He traveled to New York city where his father lived and joined the electrician's union. Through that organization, he got a job installing the elevators in the Empire State Building. One day in 1931, he and another worker were on a scaffolding when it broke and they both fell. They were both badly injured and were taken to the hospital. The other gentleman died but my father eventually recovered. His left arm was permanently damaged and appeared "withered" for the rest of his life. The union paid for him to return to college at Columbia where he graduated in 1933 with a degree in mechanical engineering.
by Diane Roberts G2G Crew (930 points)
Hello Diane. Thank you for elevating the story about your father to the Question of the Week. My great grandfather, George Adams Dawson, also was a rising star in the elevator business.

https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Dawson-7111

George was a very successful advance agent for Otis Elevators. He went to Albany, New York, the State capital, to sell elevators for the first "sky scraper" building. Unfortunately, he died before he could have met your father.
Thanks for responding! It's too bad they couldn't have met. I wish I could find some documentation of the accident and the name of the man who died, but so far I've had no luck with that.
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My father, J Carey Yates Sr, was born in 1913 in Nashville, GA.   His family took him to visit a local carnival when he was around age 4.  The main attraction was a young elephant which was being fed peanuts by the spectators.   Young Carey was also attracted to the peanuts.   Carey tottered closer to the elephant and picked up one of the peanuts.  This angered the elephant which grabbed Carey with his trunk and tossed him several feet but without injury.
by Jim Yates G2G1 (1.3k points)
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My father was a great man, although he never did anything that most people would consider noteworthy. He lost his father when he was 15, but he never talked about the loss; he only talked about the good times. He served in the Army Air Corp during the war, then returned to the small town of Anaheim where he'd gone to high school (and met the only woman he ever loved in an alley--but that's a story for another time). He got a job as manager of the local Western Auto store, which required weekend hours, so after 2 children came along, he quit and was hired by AAA at a substantial paycut. Being with his family was more important to him than money. He loved being out in nature and took us camping every summer on vacation to state and national parks, first in an old army tent and later in a 15' trailer that held 5 of us (grandma came along too!). Eventually there were 2 more kids for a span of 18+ years from oldest to youngest. The picture is a favorite of mine. My dad is holding my brother Frank (he and my sister were both born with a congenital liver defect that was unknown at the time. She passed at 24 he made it to 32). Frank rarely could sleep more than 2 hours at a stretch and some nights hardly at all. Of course Mother took most of the night duty as she didn't work after Frank was born, but Daddy always stepped in when he saw that she needed him. I could tell many stories about the kind of man he was, but I think this picture does a pretty good job.

by Terry Skelton G2G3 (3.2k points)
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Wen we were transferred to Okinawa, my husband was sent on rotation to Vietnam. Leaving our young son and I for 6 weeks at a time. Our son soon start realizing that he was fatherless a lot of the time. On one rotation, my husband had gone to bed was sound asleep. He was awakened suddenly to see a group of children surrounding the bed, and our son saying "See, I have a Daddy Too!  From then on my husband, spent more time with our son .
by Suzanne Patton G2G2 (2.1k points)
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My grandpa Clint Taylor was a long distance truck driver. One day a hwy patrol officer pulled him over for speeding. With a sarcastic attitude the officer asked him “do you think your a pilot or something?” Grandpa took his pilot’s license out of his wallet and said “yes sir, I am”. The officer must have found this humorous as he told grandpa not to do it again, and left without writing the ticket.
by Adam Hewett G2G Crew (560 points)
Hello Adam, Thank you for sharing your "get out of jail free" story. My father was also stopped by a policeman while driving. When he went to remove the driver's license from his wallet, the policeman noticed his Masonic membership card. The policeman asked my father, "Are you a Freemason?" My father said, "Yes." The policeman replied, "Travel on, brother." and that was the end of the story - also no ticket.
The Officer broke the law and should have been suspended for a form of favouritism.
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My grandfather, Burnis Ralph Christopher, lost several fingers off each hand when he was a young boy. The family lived in a sod house in eastern Colorado. Burnis’ father hired a man to dig a well so they wouldn’t have to haul water from a nearby neighbor. The well digging was not successful and the well digger left some blasting caps in the cellar under the kitchen. Burnis and his brother Leroy took some one day when no one was looking and went out to the fields to play, with little sister Ruby tagging along. They tried to set them off by throwing rocks from a distance. That failed, they got bored, and put the caps back in their pockets. Several days later, Burnis was cultivating corn and the friction from guiding the horses’ reins set off the caps in his pocket. He drove the horses back home where his mother cleaned and dressed his wounds then drove him nine miles into town in a horse and buggy to see the doctor. His mother found out that his younger brother also had some caps and sent one of his sisters out to the fields to bring him home to empty his pockets. Years after the accident, Burnis could still find metal slivers under his skin that had to be removed like splinters. When asked about his fingers in later years, he always told his grandchildren that he was really hungry one day while eating a sandwich and wasn’t paying attention to where his fingers were and chewed them right off.

by Gary Christopher G2G6 Mach 2 (25.7k points)
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My father James Renwick was a Catholic living in Dublin Ireland in 1914.  He was 19 years old when the First World War broke out and he immediately volunteered to join the British navy. He served throughout the war and was awarded many medals for his bravery. After the War, on Remembrance Sunday, he would bring us to the Memorial Gardens in Dublin to honor the fallen. When the Boys Brigade played their Bugle Calls his tears flowed as he remembered his lost comrades. He was very proud of his service to King and Country. 

Three of my elder brothers were boilermakers with experience of building ships in Dublin. When the 2nd World War broke out, Ireland decided to be a neutral country and as a consequence, strategic materials like steel were kept for the British war effort. Repair work on ships was greatly reduced. My brothers heard that Harland Wolff shipyard in Belfast was recruiting  (Titanic)

My brothers were worried because the Yard had a reputation of discrimination and bullying of Catholics. Our surname was an English surname "Renwick". For obvious reasons, they pretended to be unemployed Protestants suffering from discrimination in the South. They were housed in a 3-bedroom house in Protestant Whiteabbey.

Throughout Northern Ireland, Protestant Orangemen celebrate the Battle of the Boyle that took place on 12 July 1691. On the Glorious Twelfth, they paraded across Ulster. The streets and lampposts are bedecked with British flags and bunting. On the eve, they have huge bonfires to burn the effigy of King James. Orangemen on the Twelfth wear a black suit, an Orange sash, war medals, white gloves and a bowler hat behind huge banners. They also have loyalist marching bands playing Unionist tunes backed up by loud Lambeg drums.

From 1940 to 1945 my parents and my siblings would travel by train to my brother's house in Whiteabbey to holiday with them. Because of his valor in the Great War, my father was invited to join the local Orangemen's parade so he dressed up like them with his medals, bowler hat, etc even though he was a Catholic. It was a thrill for him to parade again after 20 years. I was ever so proud to see him marching with his head held high.

My brothers and parents developed strong relationships with their next-door neighbors, the McManus family. When the war ended in 1945, my brothers were made redundant and returned to repair ships in Dublin. After the war, the McManus family invited us to stay with them over the 12th holiday period so that my dad could be involved in the local parade.

I was 7 years old and was lectured not to tell anybody in Whiteabbey that we were Catholics. Young Alec McManus was my own age and we developed a great boyhood relationship. On Saturday afternoons we would go to the local Orange Hall where they would show mostly cowboy and war pictures. 

On my first visit, Alec told the Lodge Grand Master about my brothers working in H& W and that my father was parading with the Lodge. He never questioned my religion, believing I was a true Protestant.

 Because I was a new recruit, the Grand Master took me under his wing and allowed me to wear some of their regalia. He was a traditional Irish storyteller and he had a fascinating way of telling us about the various battles fought in Ireland. I was enthralled with his story of the Derry Apprentice Boys and how they had been forced to eat dogs, horses and rats during the siege. He also explained the need for their Unionist traditions i.e. to uphold their civil and religious liberties. Being so young I was hooked and kept asking him to repeat his stories.

I was only a boy then, but I now realize that I got a fantastic insight into the minds of Unionists, their values and traditions. I was mesmerized by his historical stories, letting me wear Orange regalia, waving their flags and singing their songs. I think he was grooming me to become a Derry Apprentice Boy. I was becoming more Unionist than the Unionists themselves.

 At the end of the 2-week holiday, Alec begged my parents to let me stay an extra week and they agreed. We would play around our made up clubhouse like in the "Just William" books. On some occasions, we would play in an unused underground air-raid shelter. When the pretend bombing was over, we would all come out ready to fight the Germans.   

On Tuesday 17th July, a day I will always remember, we decided to re-enact the Battle of the Boyne i.e. Protestants versus the Catholics. I was selected to be a Protestant and not realizing the consequences, I refused. The subject got hot and heavy regarding my refusal. I was so immature and finally blurted out that I was a real Catholic and would not fight against my own kind. They were shocked to hear that they were playing with a Catholic. Alec was really upset and ran home to tell his parents repeatedly shouting "Mammy, Mammy, Brendan says he is a Catholic. What will we do"? Alec's parents already knew of my secret and they were very concerned about the consequences and they told me to go upstairs and pack my things and sent me home by train.

by Brendan Renwick G2G Crew (770 points)

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