In my case, among other tales, Dad told a thrilling tale of how his mother, grandmother, and aunts, were bundled into the false bottom of a hay wagon, and driven out of Stalin's Russia by her father and brother. As Dad told it, her father was shot at the border after the guards asked his name- which was Abram (Friesen)- because it was 'a Bible name'. Her brother, also named Abram, replied 'Viktor!' when they asked him- a half-truth, because that is what he was called in their village, to differentiate him from his father. So they let him through, with his father's body, after thrusting their bayonets through the hay, of course. I'd always imagined how harrowing it must have been for my grandmother, hearing the shots, and the bayonets, and wondering if 'Viktor' would be shot too...
Well, talking with my aunts... very little of it was true. In fact, instead of getting out in the 20s, during Stalin's purges, they left the Ukraine in 1918, while the civil war was still going on. (My grandmother told a couple of very interesting tales of when the 'Whites' and the 'Reds' fought their way through her village- from the horse's mouth, so to speak, and she wasn't one for lying, unlike Dad.) They didn't ride in the false bottom of the wagon, as far as my aunts knew, and their father wasn't shot at the border- he died in Manitoba, after they arrived. 'Viktor' did in fact go back though, to attempt to get other family members out, and never made it back out. He died in a gulag in Siberia, jailed because he was a pastor. (One of his grandchildren managed to get photos to our family in North America- the family preceded the truck with his body to the graveyard, with a large wooden cross, carried by one of the other grandsons. Guess who also went to the gulag?)
My grandson's middle name is Viktor, after my great-uncle. This was before we found out about Dad's interesting view of the truth. My daughter says she's not changing his name, because the spirit of the story is still a good one, even if it's fiction. Very much like in 'Who Shot Liberty Valance?'- your print the fiction. And Samuel Viktor is a terrific name. :-)
I don't know if it is a case of Dad believing his own lies, having told them often enough, or if he was embroidering the truth to make things more interesting for us kids, or if it had something to do with a TBI he had after a motorcycle accident in 1960 that nearly killed him. (He was wearing a helmet- it was just that he landed head-first on the pavement.) Of course, he had to embroider than too, extending his stay in the hospital from a week to four months...