Looks like they went to the States in 1909.
http://"United States Border Crossings from Canada to United States, 1895-1956", database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:FSHP-8YW : 14 November 2019), Fabian L Pare, 1909.
I think you have his birthdate wrong, he was born 1854
Here is 1861 Census for him
1861 Census
And the 1911 Census
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QV9T-QGWX
Look Here - Lots of sources to review for Fabian and Family
https://www.familysearch.org/tree/person/sources/L5Y6-VX1