Clarification, I am not suggesting the deletion of any record, or anything that would require re-inputting. I am talking about detaching an incorrect mother from a family.
Right now, when you add a spouse to another spouse that already has children, the system asks: is this spouse the parent of (and lists all the children, with checkboxes by their names).
I am requesting the same feature when *removing* a spouse from a family with existing children.
Mm... maybe we are saying the same thing, but I was thrown by the reference to deleting and re-inputting.