We are descendants of Captain Robert Deskford Gray and have been researching the family tree for the last five years. Here is a very quick summary - there is a lot more info (siblings, wifes etc) which we are happy to share but may be best to do over email or phone. The male line is:
James Gray b about 1670(farmer) from The Grange Parish, Meikle Cantley, Scotland m Isabel Muirie
James Gray b 1711 (farmer) same farm as above m Jean Taylor
Alexander Gray b 1756?(minister from Ordiquhill, Banffshire, Scotland) m Mary Grant (daughter of Robert Grant, minister of Cullen, Scotland)
Robert Gray b 1788 (merchant) m Charlottle Kettle
Captain Robert Deskford Gray (Sea captain, Banffshire) m Ann McDonald. Migrated to Nelson, NZ.
Alexander Gray (cabinet maker and lieutenant in militia)
Sydney Gray (mechanical engineer) m Elizabeth Scholtz
Donald Gray b 1919(Draughtsman) m Valerie Henry (nurse)
Donald Bruce Gray b 1951(Draughtsman, still living, New Plymouth, NZ) m Sandie Huggett (nurse)
Killan Bruce Gray b 1973(IT Engineer, still living, Hamilton NZ) m Hitomi Taniguchi
Hunter Gray b 2012
We hope this helps....
The Gray Family