Sorry to hear that you are upset about edits that other members have made to profiles where you are listed as profile manager.
In a Wiki, none of us can "own" the content we create, and it's safe to say that all of us get annoyed on occasion by the changes that others make to profiles that we care about.
In general, minor changes to format and layout (especially corrections to format errors and changes to help a profile conform with WikiTree style guidance) and sourcing improvements are not deemed to be the kinds of major changes that require communication in advance. However, if other members are going through profiles we created and making major changes that we don't like (such as converting biographical text to a timeline, or vice versa) or making erroneous changes to source citations, we can and should make contact with them, advise them of our concerns about their changes, and ask them to be more considerate in the future. Different members have different preferences and set different personal boundaries, and we cannot recognize that we have given offense to someone unless the offended person tells us. Be sure to be polite and diplomatic! And do assume that the other member had good intentions (they probably did)!