"Welcome to the Weekend Chat!" All Members Invited!! February 17th - 19th, 2023 [closed]

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WikiTree profile: Pip Sheppard
closed with the note: Great to hear from everyone. See you next weekend!
in The Tree House by Pip Sheppard G2G Astronaut (2.9m points)
closed by Pip Sheppard
Good lord you're a busy man
I did moderate a forum once and I was kinda ruthless. >=) I once banned 100 people on a Valentine's Day in the early 2000s. I called it the Valentine's Day Massacre.

As for San Pietro, see my main post.
I hope next week gives you a bit of a break. I know how such weeks go.
Pip, there was a Triplett family in the Northern Neck region of Virginia; they immigrated there in the mid 1600s.  One of them, Mary, is my 10th great grandmother, married to my ancestor Peter Jett.
Cuz, you are like the Energizer Bunny! I hope you can find a few minutes to relax.

I vaguely remembered the Wilson campaign slogan, but other things had chased it out of my head. We are not getting forgetful as we age; we just have too much to remember! Thanks for this...it may come in handy should Jeopardy! ever decide to call me. (Hopefully going on my *fifth* regional/online audition...)
Oh Pip, I hope that you are able to get some rest this weekend.
I have a question, I have been putting everything back in the new kitchen cabinets now that the installation is finished.

Why do I have 41 pairs of wooden Japanese chopsticks?

They are all unused and still in their wrappers.

Where did I find them? In an ice bucket that hasn't been used in years.

There were also about 2 dozen pairs of plastic Chinese chopsticks and another dozen pairs of wooden Chinese chopsticks with very nice burnt wood engravings.
sounds like you didn't need new cabinets, just more
The previous cabinets were starting to fall off the walls, they were 30 years old, and quite yucky.
we just hit 58 degrees. i d better get outdoors or it will be hard to live with myself when we head back downhill this week

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Good morning Pip and the weekend chatters!

It is pre Mardi Gras weekend in south Louisiana!

Weather:

  • Currently, it is 37ºF and sunny.

WikiTree:

Bingo Day:

RootsTech 2023:
  • RootsTech 2023 is just two weeks away. Have you registered virtually if you are not attending in person? It's free to register virtually. Also, you can download the RootsTech 2023 app.
by Tommy Buch G2G Astronaut (2.3m points)
edited by Tommy Buch
Pre-Mardi Gras just as fun as Mardi Gras! :)
Ash Wednesday in just a few days, Tommy!
Hiya Tommy! Thanks for the challenge plug. Things have gotten off to a great start!
Wow! Time flies. Mardi Gras already! Maybe I will try to tune into Bingo tonight. I believe that is 5pm in Tucson.
Mardi Gras is just another reminder I am not the man I use to be nor the man I want to be.
Ah thanks for the update on the roots tech app will look at that.  Looking forward to the virtual roots tech.
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Good morning from Alabama.  It is a little chilly here in north Alabama at 37.  I have today off work so have been doing some cemetery categorizing in some West Virginia counties. I plan to do WT today and tomorrow.
by Sharon Haynes G2G6 Mach 2 (25.2k points)
Hiya, Sharon! The cold you are experiencing is headed our way today. Enjoy your WikiTreeing this weekend!
We're up to a whopping 32, feels like 23F (-5 C). It's done nothing but storm and rain the past few days. I'm ready for some (warm) sunny spring weather!
Which is why my wife said we are not retiring to Kentucky, even though she is from there!
Sharon and Mindy, it is warmer in Alabama and Kentucky than it is here is Tucson! It is a very chilly 30F! The upside is that we are expecting 70F for this weekend.
Hi Sharon, 30° and sunny here in Michigan. For us, that's springtime weather.
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I am super excited for today's two Bingo Events on WikiTree!

At Noon (EST) is a Project that most probably do not know about:  First Responders.... and we are going to add something a little different to this one. You don't want to miss it.  If you have Police Officers, Firemen, EMTs and other First Responders in your family... join us for Bingo!

And, the 6pm (EST) is the Puerto Rico Project.  Our first hispanic Project to join Bingo.  And, yes, it is challenging to come up with 50 Bingo words.  wink  I hope everyone joins us as Pip pronounces and explains the Bingo words.  Did I mention prizes?

On Valentine's Day, I interviewed Dr. Stone of Frontier Nursing University and I learned a lot!  Who knew that a nurse could get frozen to her horse?!  The Appalachia Project is working on adding the Frontier Nurses of Kentucky to WikiTree.

by Sandy Patak G2G6 Pilot (359k points)
Sandy, I hope I remember to join y'all today for the First Responders bingo, as my daughter and son-in-law are a member of those, the first a paramedic, the second a fire fighter.
I forgot about it being Bingo day.
Sandy, how awesome that you did that interview. As an RN and nurse educator, it is truly wonderful that you all are featuring the Frontier Nurses on Wikitree! Thank you. Have a great weekend!
Hi Sandy, I will try to join. I have firefighters, police, EMTs and even a brother who was a sheriff and Director of Emergency Government in the family!
I hope to see you there!   The Bingo mug is super awesome! We definitely need more firefighters and First Responder profiles in WT.
@Sandy, if I can make it at noon, how do I join the Bingo group? Where is the link located?

The main Friday Night Bingo Page is here

The Noon (EST) YouTube link

The 6pm (EST) YouTube link

I've been looking forward to bingo all week! Thanks for putting these on Sandy
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Greetings from Southern California.  We are are still having chilly overnight temperatures.  It is 43 degrees at 7 am as I write this message.  

Genealogy-wise I have added a few profiles for this week's Freedman's Bureau challenge and hope to get more done over the weekend. I probably won't be able to wath Bingo live due to the time difference, but will be watching later.

Here's to a good week ahead!
by Karen Stewart G2G6 Pilot (135k points)
And I hope you have a great week ahead, too, Karen! Keep warm!
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¡Buenos días a todos from the Old Pueblo! It is 7am and 30F (-1.1C) with an expected high of 61F (16.1C) in Tucson. We have had several nights of severe frost this past week, and my plants have been covered to keep them warm. I woke up to a bit of snow on Wednesday!

I met with the new health insurance broker yesterday and am signing up for UnitedHealth AARP POS beginning March 1. I can only hope this works out much better than Cigna. Meanwhile, I am writing Cigna about their lousy plan. I heard on Wednesday that our landscaper’s wife has Cigna. She has serious MS and sees the same neurologist as I. She, too, was denied an MRI to assess her MS and it has been two years since her last MRI. I have a business card for them with my current agent. I also saw my primary care provider on Wednesday, and he now has me on high blood pressure medication. I’m feeling some side effects (numbness and tingling) and do not know if it is drugs or health conditions. I will contact the office after I write this missive, which is keeping my mind occupied and fear under control.

Leave the gun. Take the cannoli.” I know for sure that Chris F will recognize this line. In order to reduce my stress levels, I have been avoiding the news and watching old movies. Earlier this week, I watched The Godfather and was reminded how marvelous Marlon Brando was in that role. I absolutely cannot picture that film with another actor! I read somewhere years ago that the opening scene where he is holding the cat and granting people’s wishes was spontaneous (all wishes are granted on the Godfather’s daughter’s wedding day)! Apparently, that stray cat wandered onto the set and moseyed over to Brando. The cat either jumped into his lap or Brando picked the cat up and stroked it without missing a beat as he delivered his lines. Coppola kept that scene, and it was a stunning opener. I also watched an old segment of Who Do You Think You Are? The actor Allison Janney was featured, and she is a descendant of Jamestown and Plymouth pilgrim Stephen Hopkins. I did my sister’s-in-law ancestry and she, too, is descended from Hopkins. I read somewhere that it was his voyage to Jamestown that was waylaid by a hurricane and crashed on the shores of Bermuda that became the basis for Shakespeare’s Tempest! I can truthfully say that I am jealous of that ancestry.

In other news, my daughter, Jennifer, and her hubby, Curtis are arriving at 9:30pm tonight! It is a very short 2-day visit as they will return to Wisconsin in the early hours of Monday morning. We will spend tomorrow just wandering around Tucson and ending our day at El Cisne (thanks Eileen). On Sunday, we will be touring Tombstone. It is a town that Curtis has been longing to visit. I think all the men (in particular) who have seen Tombstone the movie with Kurt Russell ends up with a yen to see The Town Too Tough to Die and make believe they are walking in Wyatt Earp’s boots. We will see Wyatt Earp’s home adjacent to Boot Hill, an interesting as well as historical cemetery when we return.

 Speaking of genealogy, in addition to adding to Huntley and Draper ancestors (not mine, but they need some TLC), I have really thrown myself into the 16th century Baldwins of Buckinghamshire in a serious way. What a crap-tangle! There are several of my direct ancestors incorrectly mixed in with Sir John’s brood. His children alone and their spouses are a mess. Sir John’s ancestry is a mess (now we are pre-1500). He descends from a large family of Dormers, who were very wealthy, and some titled, ‘mercers of London.’ These Dormer children are incomplete, and their father had two wives and I am trying to figure out who belongs to whom in the Dormers as well as these early Baldwins. I must thank M Ross for the links she sent regarding the London Mercers, which are VERY helpful. I managed to find some very old wills for Sir John, who names his living children, and the will of his son, Sir William, who did not survive his father. One of Sir John’s daughters (with three possible names: Agnes, Anne and Katherine) was married to Sir John Pakington, a mercer and Member of Parliament. He was shot dead in Cheapside on his way to church in 1536 and it is considered the first murder by gun in London history. Apparently, Sir John Pakington, a pal of Thomas Cromwell’s, had early Anglican leanings and the Catholics were not happy about this. Once again, I am reminded of Voltaire’s adage, “History never repeats itself, man always does.”

 Pip, I still miss you, as does Tucson. I bet Mike misses you, too. As always, thank you so much for coordinating the chat. I hope you and all my fellow Chatterers had a Happy Valentine’s Day. I wish everyone a most excellent third weekend in February 2023.

by Carol Baldwin G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
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Carol, my brother sent me a photo of snow on his mailbox. He was mighty proud of being able to prove that it does actually snow in Tucson!

I'm with you: dump the news, watch old movies (new movies ae mostly just trash). I find that the more I stay away from the TV, the more room there is in my brain.

I am so happy for you that your folks are coming this weekend, but I'm envious that y'all are going to El Cisne! Oh, how I miss Tucson.
Pip, I am still so greatful to you and Mike for that wonderful day at DeGrazia's and El Cisne. I'm going to have that taco ensalada again! I'll be ill for 2 days but it will be worth every bite! I didn't take photos of the snow caps on my plant covers. Just shook it off and prepared them for the next night of frost warnings.

I agree with you about avoiding the telly. Way too much bad news. Much healthier to watch movies and work on Wikitree! And join the chat...maybe Bingo...plus my kids coming for a visit...
Enjoy your valentine visit with your daughter!
I am so looking forward to the visit. I am not feeling well on this new drug and my daughter's visit will be the perfect antidote! Thank you Erin!
Watch that medication! I think it was cholesterol medication that gave me peripheral neuropathy (numbness/tingling in the feet). My doctor wasn't real concerned about it, and it went on for a while. Now I have slight permanent numbness in parts of my feet. I stopped the medication a long time ago, the thing was, my cholesterol wasn't really that high anyway.
sounds like my dr.   here take this pill for the side effects for that one     when i fire this one, i'll be on #4 or 5   i ve out lived 1 already
Hi Rob, the dilemma is that my B/P is way high (like 180/130) and I am a walking stroke risk. I have postponed taking any BP medication for a long time using complemtary and alternative practices such as healing touch, meditation, guided imagery, massach, acupuncture/accupressure, etc. These have worked very well for years until several months ago. It is difficult to know if it is the medication or the MS, or the vasculature problems I already have in combination with stress. I do not like taking any drugs. I am a master's prepared nurse. The this point, though, the BP is very concerning given that what I have been doing isn't working. Thank you so much for your concern. I have high cholesterol; however, I also have a family history. My HDL is really great so I continue to decline the cholesterol drugs. They are more of a problem than drugs for hypertension!
@K...hahahaha...too true. I decide to take drugs or not. I am at least 30 years older than my physician, have multiple health conditions and he is the one who had a triple bypass last year!
Hey Carol, i ve had guilliam barre 43 plus years. if i took everything they have prescribed, i would have od'd along time ago  i have angio-adema  from time to time, i say its a reaction to medications, they say they dont know, take this  if a medication has a side effect, i will tell you what it is about a month after i start taking it  good luck w/ your dr
Cousin Carol, I hope the new plan works out better for you and that you experience some stabilization with the health issues. Enjoy your family visit!
@D, Hi Cousin D, thank you for the kind words!
Hope your health issues get reviewed. Sometimes it can be difficult to decide whether symptoms are a side effect or worsening of a condition. If it is listed as a known side effect, it probably is that, but we are all individuals who can react in our own way to something new.
@Hilary Thanks much for this feedback. I've followed up with both the primary care physician and the neurologist. It's related to health conditions. The neurologist ordered additional brain imaging scans and compared them with the ones done 2 years ago. He's strongly recommending I stay on the antihypertensive as due to major stroke risk. I like this neurologist as he is strongly holistic and doesn't prescribe unless absolutely necessary. I truly enjoy your posts from and about Wales!
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Good afternoon!

Been busy blogging this week Gadsby Family Ancestors. I also had a zoom chat yesterday with some members of the Society of Genealogists about DNA tests and issues surrounding their use.

Weather has been mild although we did have a gusty wind overnight and this morning. Very little in the way of rain and spring is definitely on the horizon with the flowers starting to bloom.

by Hilary Gadsby G2G6 Pilot (351k points)
edited by Hilary Gadsby
Hilary, as soon as I saw the headline, I knew it was YOU!

We have our first flowers showing this past week, daffodils, crocuses, and Lenten roses. I am more than ready for spring!
As soon as the daffodils are out in our garden I will post a picture. Our neighbours have some but ours are not there yet.
Hi Hilary,

What did you learn about DNA testing and their issues?
Many said they were frustrated by not getting a reply when they contacted someone.

We also discussed some of the ethical issues that can arise when the results arrive and how one might deal with them.
Our first daffodil has flowered this morning. I will add a picture later.
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Good morning Pip and everyone! After a week of spring winning the seasonal battle, winter takes the field today with a projected high of 35F in NE KY.

I intended to spend Feb tying up loose ends and wrapping up various projects, but instead, I have started two new ones this month! One is adding USCT Civil War soldiers who reported their birth as my home county when they enlisted; the other is a place study for a frontier fort in KY during the Rev War that was destroyed by the English/Shawnee in 1780 and the prisoners marched to Detroit. It's hard to imagine travelling that far on foot in any conditions, let alone extremely harsh ones. Many were not returned to their families for 14 years!

Both of these projects are basically new research territory for me, and only a few of the requisite tools are in my toolbox - which has reminded me for the millionth time of what is now my WT Tip of the Month: if you bump into an interesting research topic in your family history, but feel you don't really know enough in general to pursue it - dive in and reach out to the fantastic WT community. There are many many experienced, knowledgeable and generous people right here at the tip of your fingers just waiting to help, advise and collaborate! 

by Mel Bishop G2G6 Mach 7 (78.1k points)
Those are two cool projects, Mel, and you are commended for starting the research on them and setting them up. Your advice is perfect: ask for help. I have found it amazing how much help I can get if only I ask.
Those are both great projects Mel! It's so easy to add things to do on WikiTree lol.
Oh those new projects....always one (or five) on the horizon! I wish you luck on your new endeavors. Those tools will find their way into your box before you know it!
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Greetings and Top-of-the-morning to ya from Lone Jack, Mo. Or should I say Home of the World Champion Chiefs. I'm not really a big fan, nor are they from Lone Jack, however I do pay taxes in Jackson Co so I guess I support them one way or another. Might as well talk them up and feel like I'm getting my monies worth. Coffee is about 160-165, outside about 17. It has warmed up a couple degree but, I won't be able to "brag" about 37 degrees til about noon. The sun is shining and no freezing rain this morn' so things are looking up.
by K Smith G2G6 Pilot (450k points)

K, I'm on my third cup of coffee this morning. This is usual for me the morning I post the Chat. On other days, I kinda spread it out.

The sun just came out (it was raining when I posted the Chat). It's not going to help. We are expecting a dive in the temps today. sad I am more than ready for spring to arrive!

We're headed for 60 Sunday. Time to get some fresh air. Finally feel like I'm breathing again after the covid and RSV back in Nov. What a deal that's been.
K, when my wife and I got Covid a few months ago, it took me about four weeks to get my breathing back. My wife on the other hand took longer. Glad to hear you are feeling so much better. Enjoy your warm weather on Sunday!
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Good Morning Pip and All!!

It was a chilly 27 degrees this morning; we are headed for 80F the first of the week. Ahhh! Spring in Texas. Wind, cold, hot, repeat.

This week I have been working on bringing some O'Neal and Clark families down close enough to the present that I can find living males for Y-DNA testing. For both of those lines, some Y testing is about the only thing left to confirm our lineage.

In the near future I plan to tackle my Phelps brick wall. There are some really good studies on the Phelps but I can't find enough information on Aaron Phelps in North Carolina in the 1700's to figure out where he belongs. At least there are no shortage of problems to tackle in my family lines!!

Last weekend we had a great family gathering to celebrate a grandson's 18th birthday. That was followed by a Super Bowl party across the street from us which we attended until halftime. That was followed by being comfortably ensconced in our lounge chairs and I completed the day with my greeting shift.

Have a great weekend - stay safe and well! See ya'll next week.
by Virginia Fields G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
Ginny, where in North Carolina was that Phelps line (not that I can help much, but...)?

I cannot believe that you are going to hit 80 degrees this week! In February no less. What is it about Texas that the weather varies so much?

Glad you had a great time last weekend with your grandson!
Hi Ginny! Phelps? You are a Phelps descendant? Which Phelps? I am a Phelps descendant as well. I am a descendant of William and Ann (Dover) Phelps (https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Phelps-54). Might there be a connection?
Aaron Phelps was in Wilkes County, NC. I have him on the North Carolina census 1784-1787. One male 21-60 years old. 5 males over 21 and under 60 and several females. His daughter, Rebecca was already married to Joseph Humphries and they move to Franklin County, Georgia.
Carol, I haven't yet figured out Aaron Phelps and I don't think he was connected to the Connecticut Phelps clan. It is possible but I won't know until I can find more information. Some people have Aaron married to a Mary Kent from Connecticut but I am fairly certain that is incorrect.
Ginny, Wilkes County was where my Shepherds settled. Before that, they were in Halifax County just across the line in Virginia. Hmmm...
@Ginny As I recall, there are two different Phelps families that came over from England. They have different DNA haplogroups. A woman named Dorothy Phelps has a FaceBook Phelps Genealogy link. I am a descendant of that Phelps family (RM-269, which is the haplogroup for MANY men who came from western Europe, so additional DNA testing is needed). Anyway, I think the other Phelps line descended from 'George' Phelps (maybe). Even though they settled as 'Yankees', a fair number of them could have moved south, as did some of my early Baldwin cousins. Almost all of the Baldwins in the USA came from the Baldwins in Buckinghamshire and settled in Massachusetts and Connecticut (and another group in Pennsylvania). Their descendants moved south after several years. This might be the case with your Phelps line. I will keep an eye out for Aaron. Have a great weekend and happy hunting!
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It's been an interesting week this time. The highlights:

  • Found and verified four DNA matches to myself this past week. 
  • One of those DNA matches sheds a bit of light on a family branch of mine that I've historically not known much about. Previous genealogy work by my mother and paternal grandfather didn't record much about the Fletcher line. But now I have a 4C1R with a common ancestor of John Fletcher and his wife, my 4th great-grandparents. I know that the relationship is too far for a full confirmation, but it does make it somewhat confident. The profile that I have for John Fletcher is very much in-process. I'm working on various descendant lines now, and seeing how much I can confirm through the documentation first. Another advantage is this also increases my CC7 too.
  • A tentative discovery may possibly link a branch of my family to a qualifying Jamestowne Society ancestor. Upon looking at this in more detail it definitely requires more research. There are some conflicting information that needs to get resolved first. But I think it would be very cool if the relationship holds. As if I needed yet another research project, though. ;-)
  • I made another interesting discovery. Background: I have Longan in my maternal family. My great-great-grandfather is Benjamin Longan. Many of the paper sources show a younger brother, named Marshall. Several years ago, I was contacted by another Longan descendant, and she had personal evidence that Marshall Longan was actually the son of Benjamin's eldest sister, Emma Longan, born out of wedlock. Marshall told her this on his deathbed. The story goes that his biological father had the last name of Teague, and that he was hanged in the middle of town. My contact did not know when or what for. Over the years, I tried looking for information about this, as I figured something so sensational surely made the local papers. I haven't found anything yet, in all this time. However, this week I found a possible clue. Benjamin and Emma's father (John Bowles Longan) had a sister that I didn't know much about. Just her name was George Ann or Georganne or something like that. Well, during these last few years, more documentation has come to light. Her name is Georgian Longan. It's an odd spelling but that is what is on her gravestone. Well guess what? She married a man with the last name of Teague, and they had children. So, let's speculate a little bit. Emma had a child out-of-wedlock. She gave the child to her parents to raise, as if the child were their own. They kept this image up all throughout their lives. What could cause something like that? Could it be sexual assault or rape? We don't yet know, but the situation of covering it up suggests that it could be. We also know from modern statistics that many sexual assaults and rape comes from people who are known to the victim. Here we have a Teague family who are cousins to the Longan family. It may or may not be one of the cousins. But it gives me a place to start looking for this missing father with the last name of Teague.

Beyond that, there was the usual work of increasing CC7, answering correspondence and random bits.

by Eric Weddington G2G6 Pilot (555k points)

Amazing work, Eric.

I had a similar situation like your Longan family. DNA has not yet proven the story, but there are two lines of thought, one based on what people wanted others to know, and what the actual truth is. I have info on the truth of the matter, but have not publicized is here on WIkiTree,yet.

Hi Eric! Wow! You have been a busy man! Best of luck with your Jamestown search. That would be an awesome connection.
@Pip: In many cases the truth is always preferable. It's the only way to heal from trauma, physical or emotional, or generational. Acknowledgment and empathy.
@Carol: I know, right! I didn't even think something like that would even be possible. I didn't know much about the group. I had vaguely heard of it before. But it's going to be a bear to try and prove. This may be a long-simmering project to work on.
Ganbate! (roughly translated from Japanese, "Good luck"!)
@ EW, don't exclude uncles in your hypothesis. A short piece of rope and a hanging Teague suggests a non-consensual assault could have occurred. I would lean towards the married Teagues uncle, as opposed to his father, or there would probably no leads at all. The fact that Georgian married a Teague, suggest that her husband was not the father, or they probably would have married sooner. The history of lynchings is fairly consistent in re; to the guest of honor, rapist, murderers and pedophiles, as is the history of sex offenders. My 2 cents- keep the change.
Absolutely, I can't rule out any theory yet. The trick is trying to find sources about this Teague person, based on this bit of a story. I haven't found anything yet.
After my discussion this week I will probably start to look at using What are the odds on the DNA painter website.

I have at least 2 fairly close ancestors who were born before marriage and working out who a father might be is going to take some work. Both are at the 2xgt grandparent level in my maternal line. Looking at shared matches may be the only way to discover who they might be. If one of them was the future husband then I know his only legitimate child had no legitimate children. The other one is totally the opposite her husband had several children and one of them had 22 children.
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Aloha from Lincoln, Nebraska

It's been a couple weeks since I've stopped by for a visit. After what seems like 6 weeks in a row of working over 50hrs. I used yesterdays 9.5 inches of snow as an excuse to take a 4 day weekend. I shoveled the drive way and sidewalks three times just So it wouldn't be as difficult later in the day. Shoveling that much snow is never fun. The snow fall led to the demise of my 8yr old snow shovel. It was a good shovel. I borrowed one from my neighbor/coworker when he got home from work. Yesterday morning, when I did my initial scooping of my driveway at 5:00am. I went and did his. We help each other out a lot. At that point, I already requested the day off, and then requested today off.

Thanks to some minor diet changes, as well as some extra physical activity. I've shrunk a bit in the waistline. I'm pretty excited about that. I'm not ready to invest in new clothes yet. But my clothing seems to be fitting a lot looser. I haven't stepped on a scale since my annual physical in November. So I don't know how many pounds I've lost. I just know that my weight hadn't changed in 3 years. I know I'm able to move faster, and easier. I bought a belt a couple years ago that purposely was on the last hole. Now I'm on the fifth hole.

This past week my wife turned 43. We just had a nice home cooked meal and a nice family day. She and the kids are all doing well.

I've been kind of bouncing all over the place on my family tree. Working on several different branches. Finding more family in Nebraska. I feel less lonely just knowing they're around.

I haven recorded any new music that last couple of weeks. Because of just being tired from work. But I do still play guitar everyday for at least 30 minutes. After work it's my favorite way to unwind. During those moments, I'm not actively writing, I'm not practicing technique. I'm just playing for the pure joy of it.

That pretty much wraps up my last couple weeks.
by Paul Kreutz G2G6 Pilot (135k points)
Paul, you need a vacation, but knowing you, you won't get one for a while.

Congrats on the diet/exercise, and happy birthday to your wife!

I know exactly what you're talking about, working on multiple lines at the same time. I was contacted by Chris F the other day. He found a connection to this county with someone he was working on up in his neck of the woods, the Northeast. Turns out that the fella from my county is a double cousin of mine (not surprisingly with all the intermarriages around here).
That covid diet helped me lose about 20 lbs. I must be in recovery mode, I've gained about half back.
Hey Paul, what is your musical forte?
I might take a vacation. 4 days off in a row is kinda crazy for me. Before I took these two days off. My PTO balance was at 60hrs. I think I'm down to 49. We get 1.08hrs/week that accrues over time. So many times when I take a day off. I still have around 42hrs worked.

The diet is not very restricting. I just have a hard time with portion control. Also, I started carrying my tool bag farther distances. Instead of having the truck closer to the equipment. My tool bag weighs around 80lbs. I've also been doing compound lifts. So I only work out about three times a week. But, I hit all the muscle groups. I'm not going heavy like I did 20 years ago. But I'm not using light weights either.

K, I haven't knowingly had covid yet. But around 11yrs ago I had pneumonia. I was knocked out of work for 10 days. I was a very strong, in shape 240lbs when I got hit with it. 10 days later I was around 210lbs and weak. I could barely eat. My medicine wouldn't let me consume dairy. Anything that went in my body came out. I was drinking broth and water the entire time. When I went back to work. My boss at the time made me drive the forklift for a couple months until I started regaining my strength. The safety guy was happy. He didn't have to yell at me for several months about lifting over 50lbs.

My musical forte is thrash/death metal. I do vocals, guitar, and bass. I have to program the drum tracks. I do all my own recording, and mixing. My mother, who would be 71 this year, had she not passed. Let my friends and I use her garage. For band practice and all around jamming. Until she got sick. It was funny that my 50yr old mom would be inside her house, and my 26yr old self, and friends would visit twice a week. Then probably anger the neighbors. She loved when we would stop by. At that time my brother was the only kid living with her at the time.
What's that club up there in Lincoln, The Zoo? I ve been tempted to come up and have a listen. I see good reviews. Have you heard of Seth Lee Jones out of tulsa. He's a luthier that plays. He's different, that why I like him. Give him a listen tell me what you think.      I have a history of pneumonia, about 7-8 times. Every time my dr waits til it's definite before she gives me a z-pac. Two weeks in ICU w/ covid and RSV, i thought I was selling one farm to buy another. Being old and fat doesnt help the matter.
I have enjoyed many beverages at the Zoo Bar. It’s a tiny place mainly blues and jazz artists perform there. I was in the first metal band to play there. That’s only because we were first on the bill that night. The stage was so small. During soundcheck. The normal clientele that was left over from the jazz band from the early show. Gave me some great stank face. When I let out my best impression of a bear. After we got done playing a couple guys were very kind when discussing our musical talents.

I’m not familiar with Seth Lee Jones yet
@Pip: Yea. It was really sad what happened to that guy, though. =(

Keep up the good work, Paul. And get those shoveling muscles in gear!
KC's "Knuckleheads" has grown over the years from one small stage to three stages and has lost its appeal (to me). Seth plays at the Colony in Tulsa. Seats maybe 50, cheap drinks. A must stop if ever in Tulsa on a Thursday night. Local artist, only original music is welcome.
Chris, As a sturdy, Hawaiian Midwesterner, My shoveling muscles are in top physical conditioning.
hey paul , i want a review on seth lee next week-end and throw in a cash orielly. a one man band that belongs in a Zoo. i d be surprised if he didn t hit that when he s in town
+28 votes

Hails and horns, Wikipeeps!

Quite a bit happened on the genealogy front this week. I posted a blog about outcasts and who better to talk about than someone who was accused of witchcraft? 

https://allroadhaverhill.blogspot.com/2023/02/52-ancestors-week-7-outcast.html

I couldn't think of anyone in the direct lines. MAYBE a cousin would count? I still don't know why Francesco Papatola went back to San Pietro.Calling him an outcast would be a stretch. Sure he was separated from his brothers and sisters in Haverhill. But, come on...we don't know the facts.

Speaking of San Pietro, I found the birthdate for Maria Ciancio and added her parents which means I have two more fifth great-grandparents bringing my total to 111 out of 128. Not bad, right? I'll probably do a blog about this at some point.

No word from San Pietro, yet. But, I will get one sooner or later, I am sure.

I also spruced up the profile for Scatman Crothers who, believe it or not, was a voice from my childhood. Believe it or not, he was the voice actor behind the music loving Autobot, Jazz in the original Transformers cartoon from 1984 to 1986. I naturally had his toy AND to this day Jazz remains one of my favorite Autobots. Curse Michael Bay for killing him.....*shakes fist*

On the non genealogy front, it's a little cool here in Salem and I watched the season premiere of Star Trek: Picard. Good stuff so far. Go watch it if ya can. The new Ant-Man movie is out and I intend to see that one! Of course.

I also put a collectible on ebay for 90 bucks and this guy with no ratings OR auctions offered me 50 for it. I was like "Uhh. No. No way, buddy." I don't trust those kinds of profiles.  Granted we all start somewhere. But, he just seemed kinda skeevy, ya know.  Yeah, I wasn't about to fall for that one.

I hope everyone has a great weekend! Thanks for hosting, Pip!

by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (874k points)
edited by Chris Ferraiolo
What a great story you had to share in your blog, Chris, about John Floyd. Good thing Phipps returned when he did!

Congrats on your discovery from San Pietro!!!! How exciting. These come along spaced just enough to keep you pushing for more information. I have all of my 128 fifth-grandparents, but it was easier for me as all of them were here in the US. Do fun discoveries.
Thanks, Pip. You're right. It is a good thing Phipps returned when he did. Afterward, I see him going to a bar in Boston and be like "Give me the strongest thing ye've got. Good lord, these colonists are going to be the death of me. It couldn't get any worse...."

Narrator: 84 years later....

Congrats on having all of your 5ths. I have all of my mom's side and half of my dad's from Gesualdo. All that's left is old San Pietro and it's going at an even clip. =D
Jazz was so cool. My son thinks 1980's Jazz is one of the coolest Autobots
Yup, Your son’s got good taste. other voice actors like Phil Lamarr have tried to emulate his style. Transformers Animated came close. They  hired most of the old G1 cast to reprise several of their roles.
@ Chris and Paul- You kids ought to have your own site so you can use your own language- Autobots? What the foreign language? So I looked it up. Oh, those toys my friends' kids thru out when they grew up. A while back, I used a phrase that caused a younger friend, w/ teen-aged kids, to look at me and ask when and why I watched a kid's show or cartoon. I could not recall where I heard the phrase ''great googly moogly". I had forgotten my source!!!! A short time later, another friend o-mine and I were trippin'. That's what we called traveling out of town on a 2-3 day road trip to see concerts. We always plug in music from days gone by. A blast from the past, I heard the phrase "great googly moogly" All this time I was thinking Mr Magoo or Woody Woodpecker. None other than Frank Zappa used the phrase some 40 years ago on an album. That is a black vinal disc we used to play music.(That's so you don't have to look it up) No point to any of that except, don't forget to source, and to point out the more things change, the more they stay the same.
@K: Transformers were a big part of my childhood growing up in the 1980s to early 1990s. My parents bought them as they preferred them over era toys like G.I. Joe which glorified war....even though they technically fought a terrorist organization and the Transformers were about warring factions of transforming robots. The Autobots in this case were the good guys.

And I know what records are. My brother collects 45s and my grandfather had the collected works of J. Phillip Sousa. Plus I know who Frank Zappa is. =) Thanks for the Google check though.
I'm super familiar with records. In the heavy metal and punk genres of music. Records are a hot commodity. Especially limited run picture discs, 7 inch, 10 inch and 12 inch. A lot of people in that genre want to release on vinyl
I m so old we had metal toys w/ sharp edges, I think they were called Tonkas I thought I had it bad til I was dropped off at grandma's w/o toys. She took a ring off an old bushel basket and showed me how to roll it using a stick. That was their big fun, if they could find a metal ring back in her day. Today, I see kids', w/ stuff I could not have dreamed of, whine about being bored. All i know is If I was interested in genealogy when i was your age, i would have alot more answers to the questions I have at my age. Most guys your age that knows who John Phillip Sousa and Frank Zappa are, I would suspect them to be genealogists! Keep on keepin' on.
@P I've offended several people w/o any effort on G2G. I wanted to see if I could still be marginally offensive if I tried. I have some friends in their 50's that sold everything they owned and bought a house in a small town. Everything is retro, Console tv w/ stereo system. Turn table, I mean record player, and 33's throw in some 45's, swag lamps art deco tables and chairs. Love beads, bean bag chairs the works. I'm still looking for a lava lamp and disco ball. Yeah, the fun never ends when i'm around them. I tell them to work on the next revolution cause that one aint comin back just b/c they missed it by a couple decades.

K, I see lava lamps all the time around here in the charity stores. Time for a road trip? surprise

It might be. The weather is breaking, fish will bitin' soon enough. Got to find a road warrior as a travel mate. My wife is a homebody and hates to travel. A lava lamp might be the perfect reason for a trip. Maybe crash a Hipp family reunion, if they're havin' one this year. I don't know what's left of the Caswell line. How far out of my way is it to catch the Blue Ridge Pkwy?
@Pip: Groovy. :)

@Kay: The Transformers of the eighties were made from di cast metal for the first few years since they were from old Japanese toy lines. Tonka did the same thing with era rival, Go-Bots. I had some but the Transformers were a favorite.

Plastics are used for today’s molds but metal is usually used for the expensive masterpiece collection which fetch up to 100 to 150 dollars. Usually those are reserved for collectors.

My nephews played with Legos. So, I don’t think they were ever bored. It just depends on if the kids’ parents give them plenty to do as well. And since their dad loves music I am sure they know who Frank Zappa is. Hell, we all watched Blues Brothers one night. That was fun.
we had the old lincoln logs until dad had a teaching moment one night and threw them in the fireplace   i guess he meant now when he told us to pick them up   in retrospective mode, given today' environment, i wonder if "lincoln" logs were employed as an agent of change in society  don't want to go "polititical",(a term i once heard in discussion from someone that admitted he wasn't political) the day before Prez Day                                                               as far as music, i m easy to please, give me something i ve never heard that makes me want to listen to it again, and i m impressed-genre doesn t matter   when i reminisce, it s usually along musical lines
Well, they still make Lincoln logs. Found a bunch on Amazon. They're plastic, though. I guess if it ain't broke, don't fix it. I've never plated with them. I had Legos. =D
The only thing you could build was a log cabin. I'm telling you it s a ploy to get kids to like lincoln better than washington. george was demonized for chopping down a cherry tree. a provin lie. abe probably did it to make the original set of lincoln log .and then blamed george. this line of thinking has been brought about from info found on wikitree.
+26 votes
Greetings from south Texas, the land of yo-yo temperatures!  41 now, with a 16 mph "breeze" that has quite the frozen edge to it; expecting a high of almost 80 Sunday.

Spent most of the first half of the month tied up with tasks for a church group.  The good news is, we have our triennial election next month, and I will no longer be president.  Yay! Free time ahead!

Finally got a chance this week to do a little work on the February Civil War Challenge - we're creating profiles for soldiers, both Union and Confederate, who died at the Battle of Shiloh.

@Pip - I've seen the surname Triplett quite a bit in Cornwall; might be a clue to your guy's ancestry.

Soon off to have lunch with my sister-in-law who's recently had knee-replacement surgery (she's doing fine).  Then try to catch up on housework before the dust bunnies unionize.  And hopefully a  few more Civil War profiles before the challenge ends!
by Nan Starjak G2G6 Pilot (426k points)

Nan, I'm jealous that it's gong to be that warm for you on Sunday. We're are still waiting on spring, but there are signs it's on the way.

My wife was soooo glad when her 3-year term as warden of our little Anglican church ended. Turns out, I was elected in her place. Did I say that we are a little Anglican church?

Triplett in Cornwall. Great clue and thanks, Nan!

+24 votes
Thank You for hosting the Chat Pip.

Musings from Northeast Ohio on Americas North Coast.

Weather, Warmer and mostly dry until Friday. We went from the upper 60's on Wednesday to a high of 39 this morning. It is going to warm up again this week but not as nice as last week.

Home Front, Monday, Took the newer car for service. They found nothing wrong and we wasted the whole day but the car still acts up.

Tuesday, Papa's taxi got re activated. The youngest grandson needed a ride to work. He has his license but no car, yet.

Wednesday, Other than a emergency service meeting in the evening I did pretty much nothing. The weather was quite nice, in the 60's so I just puttered around outside.

Thursday, Another day I felt lazy.

Genealogy, Just plugging away with sourcing, formatting and connecting some profiles I adopted.
by Dale Byers G2G Astronaut (1.8m points)

Dale, was the Byers Taxi Service ever really closed for business? laugh Sorry to hear about your car problems. This seems to be a regular ocurrence: I know something is wrong, the shop says no, nothing is wrong. Hmm...

Funny how nice weather, instead of encouraging us to get outside and do our duties, it often just leads to relaxing!

O I did do some stuff outside but I also knew that there would be snow on Friday so there was not a lot to actually do. We will not put the snow thrower and snow shovels away until after our trip and that is the first week in May.
+27 votes
Good evening! I am listening to the walls creaking, as we have a storm on the way here in southern Sweden. It has been raining all day. Eranthis and snowdrops are starting to bloom.

This week, my youngest child turned 20, and hence I have no teenagers anymore.

I had no time for genealogy this week or the one before.

I wish all a good weekend, where you will have time to relax and do something you enjoy!
by Maria Lundholm G2G6 Pilot (251k points)
Hi there, Maria (and Nessie!). I have one grandson and he is 19, so... no more teens in my family this October.

Stay safe and WARM!

Greetings from Nessie! (Old photo though.)

Howdy, Nessie, you big beautiful dog! Thanks for joining the Chat today. Hope you are staying warm! heart

+24 votes

Hi from southern Ontario,

Chez moi/at home: what's happening here? Weather continues to be above normal temps, though not as warm as it was last week. About 4am this morning we had about 1mm of freezing rain, then the precipitation changed to graupel! 

I think I can hear people asking what the heck is graupel. Graupel is tiny, white pellets that resemble small hail but which, unlike hail, remain soft and crushable. I always think it looks like those tiny styrofoam pellets that are used in some stuffed toys. This morning the back deck looks like a carefully designed abstract painting, darker because of the ice and scattered with bright white dots. 

Reno: the only remaining major event will be the installation of the new counter, about 10 days from now, after which the new sink will be installed, we haven’t had a functional sink for about 3 weeks, and all dishwashing happens in the laundry tub in the basement. There have been some issues with the new cabinets, for some currently unknown reason the wall cabinets are about 3 inches shorter than their predecessors, which means they are higher up the wall and I can’t reach the second shelf without a stepstool. 

Alton Cemetery Project: I’m again stumbling through the Stubbs family, they aren’t as big a family as some others, but they could have been more organised about where they were buried. 

The immigrant ancestor William wasn’t buried at Alton, neither was his wife, or his brother, his children weren't buried at Alton, but many of his grandchildren were, and some of his great nieces and nephews were. Some spouses of the grandchildren and great nieces and nephews are intricately connected to other local families. 

I could create 4 unconnected Stubbs branches and only create profiles for the ones buried at Alton, but that makes no sense. They are connected to each other and not connecting them on WT would feel like genealogical malpractice. It does mean creating about double the number of profiles to add all the relationships to other families. 

An interesting possibility, the Peel Museum and Art Gallery, will have a new exhibition in the fall. Called Stories of Home: Community and Belonging in Peel that will forefront personal stories and engaging activities about Peel’s settlement and immigration history. They are asking for local family histories, ‘while connecting with community members to make throughlines between the past and present’

Maybe I’m nuts to think about getting in touch with them. 

The archives at the museum have been closed since August 2021 for the huge project of replacing all the environmental controls systems which will improve the conditions in the archive spaces and the long term preservation of their collections. I have been waiting and waiting to be able to access their collections, their plan was to reopen the Archives in early 2023. 

When does early 2023 end?

by M Ross G2G6 Pilot (944k points)

HI M, first, I know exactly what you are talking about because I've experienced it but never knew it was called graupel!

Glad to know the Reno is coming along and anxiously awaiting befor and after pics!

Nuts to get in tough with the Peele Museum and Art Gallery? Nah...go for it. 

Early 2023 will like be sometime in December 2023 or early 2024!

"which means they are higher up the wall and I can’t reach the second shelf without a stepstool.: Which is why i get the "call" every so often. Being 6' 3", this has been the case for many years! laugh

Pip, I'm not so short, 5' 4", only 11" shorter than you.

I have finally finished with the Stubbs grt grandchildren, one of whom married for a second time to a Canadian notable.
+22 votes
I JUST WON AT BINGO ON THE FIRST RESPONDER CHAT!!! This is the first time EVER that I won at Bingo under any circumstances. Thanks for the info Pip and everyone else. I'm going to get the Bingo mug and think of all of you everytime I have a cuppa!
by Carol Baldwin G2G Astronaut (1.3m points)
Great job Carol - and well deserved!
@Anon...Pip won the second game, but he's giving his prize to someone else. I'm too selfish and will keep my prize for me. If I win ever again, I will share.
Congrats to you Carol! I gave mine up because I have so much WikiTree stuff already.
@Pip...Nah...it's because you're nice and I'm not!
Congrats! Enjoy the mug :)
+24 votes

Hooray for Weekends, My Wikitree Cousins!

 This week I discovered another 3rd cousin who, for years, has been living within a few miles of me, unbeknownst to either of us. Given the nature of privacy rules, it is only when I find their obituaries that I can connect all the dots and reach out to family mentioned in the obituary. I wrote a short note of explanation and sent it off yesterday along with 7 pages of charts explaining how two of my gr grandmother Dolloff's sisters married 1st cousins with the last name of Cochran, and a third sister had a stepson who married one of her Cochran nieces. Given the spelling variations of both families in the records, this presents quite a puzzle. Thankfully, I have had access to local directories and newspapers which offer clues to help sort out who belonged to which family group.

I hope to have an update for you soon!

Thanks, Pip, for extending your ministry of hospitality to this community.

Have a great week everyone!

by Anonymous Reed G2G6 Pilot (203k points)
A, pleases let us know how your contact turns out. This sounds exciting!
+25 votes
Happy Weekend Everyone!

It's been a somewhat slow week genealogy wise. But I did find a Library of Congress web page that I'm excited about. They have a bunch of images that they say are "Free to Use and Reuse." They have a genealogy category as well as military, maps, veterans, etc. Check it out at https://www.loc.gov/free-to-use/ .

Weather wise, North Texas is going through it's usual weather teeter totter. I took the dogs to the dog park on Wednesday when it was 79F. This morning was 30F heading into the 50's. But it is sunny!  

Anyone else a dog lover? I have three foster-fail chihuahuas that are a joy. They're elder housemate is a poodle mix. All are rescues as have been most of my dogs over the years. - no kids but lots of dogs!

Best Wishes,

Jody
by Jody Green G2G6 Mach 2 (21.8k points)
Jody, I commend you for getting rescue dogs. I have a friend who swears that it was his rescue dog that rescued him. I miss having a dog around the house.

Thanks for that link. I'm going to hunt around to see what I can find.
Aw. Thanks, Pip. The real warriors are the rescue people who pull dogs from shelters and work tirelessly to find homes for them. I soon found out that I didn't have the temperament needed for that - hence the 3 foster fails! I'm thankful that my city has a limit or I'd really be in trouble.
You and I both, Jody (if I could get permission to have one!).
Hi Jody! All our dogs have been rescues, starting with Buster, a collie/shepherd, then his litter mate Bear. Then an Alaskan husky who had a screw loose, a chow chow puppy we adopted while passing through Nashville (unexpected!)...then 2 more chows and a chow/shepherd. Not all at once! But this is the first time we've been down to only one dog...Alice. Usually it's been 2 or 3. We're getting old and my husband says, "no more dogs." I can't imagine what that would be like. We'll see.
No more dogs! - famous last words. I'm glad to find another dog lover on board WikiTree.
+23 votes
Greetings from the warm wet beach. Currently 70 and raining like we need to float away. Good news for my bulbs, as long as we don't get another cold snap (entirely possible and even probable!)

Had a blast at First Responders Bingo! Dovetails nicely with my real life adventures teaching first aid and emergency medical care to my cub scouts this month.

Real life was busy this week, we threw two "Valentine's Social"s for the elementary school students so had to meet for a lessons learned on those. Any venture with elementary school students is a learning experience for sure!

Genealogy wise I have been a busy bee. Working on adding Frontier Nurses (and reading FNS founder Mary Breckinridge's biography), Battle of Shiloh Soldiers, Cemetery memorials for Appalachian Maryland, and the just started in on Freedmen Challenge profiles.

Wish you all well in the coming (sort of!) spring.
by Erin Robertson G2G6 Pilot (191k points)
Erin, we used to buy mandevilla in April to put in several pots around our ho9me, but learned our lesson that around here, there's always gong to be a frost the first week of May.

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