Nancy, if you are trying to add a profile for Jared's father, you would do that by opening the Edit window for Jared's profile, and at the top of the 'Edit Family' section on the right-hand side there will be a link to [add father]. When you click that, you'll get a new window that'll let you either create a new profile or use an already existing profile for the father, but you would complete the action in one of those new windows, not in Jared's profile.