If the same Find a Grave memorial is used for more than one person, that does trigger a database suggestion (DBE 585). I think that's technically possible and feasible because of the FindAGrave template, which allows one to indicate that the person whose profile it's on is NOT the person the memorial is for - {{FindAGrave|xxxxx|sameas=no}} - although I think that you don't necessarily need the template for the suggestion to be triggered.