"Welcome to the Weekend Chat!" All Members Invited!! June 2nd - 4th, 2023 [closed]

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CHANGE TO BEST ANSWER PROCESS:  After much discussion we have come to the conclusion that all answers in the Weekend Chat are of equal importance and weight.  So we are going to discontinue the Best Answer portion as it adds points and then takes them away from posters and is causing some hurt feelings.  So in the interest of everyone is equal and valued we will delete any best answers given which will deduct those points because it has been pointed out that to give everyone best answer is also not a viable option. 

Weekend Chat is for everyone. It's a place to catch up on what people are up to and to share what you've been doing.  New members can say hello, introduce themselves, ask questions, and meet each other.  Our seasoned members can share progress or successes from their projects, give tips and advice, or chime in on hot topics.

Post as many answers and comments as you wish. It doesn't hurt anyone to post a lot and enjoy the multitude of topics.

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Enjoy yourselves and spread the love!

WikiTree profile: Pip Sheppard
closed with the note: Great to hear from everyone. See you next weekend!
in The Tree House by Pip Sheppard G2G Astronaut (2.8m points)
closed by Pip Sheppard
A G2G question. Is there any easy way to find answers that you haven't upvoted? To show some Wikitree Love I always try to upvote everyones answers on questions like the Weekend Chat and don't want to miss anyone.
Sounds like a great genealogy week. I have wanted to visit King’s Mountain forever. My brother-in-law’s direct ancestor fought in that battle.

It is definitely fun to have another person to go cemetery hopping. Enjoy your visit with your brother. Y’all will make great memories.
It seems like a good week for you!  No shoulder, GI or other physical problems and lots of good work got done.  Besides, you much more than "appear" competent, you actually are very competent.  And because you are good at some things, you probably will be good at many more, I think that's true.
Darren, if you have upvoted, the up and down arrows are grayed out.
That's cool, Donna. I wonder how many WikiTreers have ancestors who fought at Kings Mountain. Probably a lot.
iF YOU WANT SOMETHING DONE GIVE IT TO A BUSY PERSON.   THE IDEA IS THAT BUSY PEOPLE ARE GENERALLY GOOD AT PRIORITIZING AND MOVING FORWARD,  i HAD A BOSS THAT TOLD ME THAT EVERYTIME HE GAVE ME ANOTHER PROJECT WITH AN UNREALISTIC DEADLINE.
I always told my boss to give those assignments to people that had time to balance their checkbooks, do their nails, make personal phone calls, call in sick on Mondays or Fridays, make up for coming in late by leaving early and always take a long lunch break or take something off my plate.
This week we had to do a detour as they closed the road we usually use. It was only for 3 days but as my son was still having problems and his car was at the garage we needed to make more journeys than usual.

This detour required us to go up the hill instead of down and then down the other side of the village churchyard on a road built for carts with only a few passing places and bends. Once we got behind 2 horses who kindly pulled to one side for us.

Hopefully, our visit to my family is going ahead this month so I need to contact a couple of uncles I want to do DNA tests for me. I have had the kits a while so hoping they will work okay.
Thanks once again Pip
You are most welcome, K!

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Hi Wikipeeps!  

My grandkids sit in front of the TV and play this video over and over and over and over and over....very annoying until I figured out this would make a great Weekend Chat parody!  Now I annoy them!devil over and over and over!

Love Chat

  • Sung to the tune of Love Shack
  • Songwriters: Kate Pierson, Fred Schneider, Keith Strickland & Cindy Wilson
  • Performed by the B-52s Released June 20, 1989
  • Ranks 246th on the 500 Greatest Hits of All Times
  • Unauthorized Parody by Dave Draper

Here is the music:

    • Open the link in a new window then come back here and try to sing along!
    • Click on the link, then click back here and the music should play while you try to sing along!
      • Enjoy!

LOVE CHAT

  • If you see a cheery post on the G2G forum that says
  • Welcome all to the ….Weekend Chat,
  • Love chat, yeah
  • I’m scrolling down the forum posts today
  • Lookin' for the love getaway
  • Headed for the love getaway….
  • I got me a monitor, it’s big as a whale
  • And I’m scrolling on down to the love chat
  • I posted a post: up votes about twenty
  • So come on and post your love chat funny!
  • Weekend Chat is a little ‘ole place where
  • We can get together
  • Love chat baby
  • A love chat baby!
  • Love chat, baby, love chat
  • Love chat, baby love chat
  • Post says, “woo, this is so KEWL”
  • ('Cause love rules at the love chat)
  • Well it says “I got stuck in the middle of a field”
  • “Found a funky old grave and I gotta get back”
  • Picture of his mistress
  • Picture of the old grave
  • Picture of his front porch
  • Picture of the fam’ly
  • Weekend Chat is a little old place where
  • We can get together
  • Love chat, baby
  • Love chat, baby!
  • Weekend Chat, that's where it's at
  • Weekend Chat, that's where it's at
  • Clickin' and a-posting, clickin' and a-chattin’
  • Wearin' next to nothing 'cause it's hot as an oven
  • The whole chat shimmies
  • The whole chat shimmies when our chattin' abounds
  • And around and around and around
  • Everybody's movin', everybody's groovin' baby
  • Folks siginn' up in stried just to get down
  • Everybody's postin', everybody's groovin' baby
  • Funky little chat
  • Funky little chat
  • I got me a monitor, it’s big as a whale
  • And I’m scrolling on down to the love Chat
  • I posted a post: up votes about twenty
  • So come on and post your love chat funny!
  • Weekend Chat is a little ‘ole place where
  • We can get together
  • Love chat baby
  • A love chat baby!
  • Love chat, baby love chat
  • Love chat, baby love chat
  • Music
  • Post, Post, Post on the Chat baby!
  • Post a little chowder, sugar
  • Post, Post, Post on the Chat baby!
  • I can't see you
  • Post Post! ...On the chat baby,
  • Post Post! ...On the chat,
  • Post Post! ...On the chat baby,
  • Post Post!...
  • You're what? abrupt stop!
  • Wife’s Home!
  • I’m BUSTED!
  • Love chat, baby love chat!
  • Love chat, baby love chat!
  • Love chat, baby love chat!
  • Love chat, baby love chat!

More of Dave's Parodies (15 now...WOW!

Enjoy the Chat!

by David Draper G2G Astronaut (4.7m points)
edited by David Draper
We'll be waiting!

Love shack = Love Chat. This is GREAT!!! Very cool, David!

Laughed out loud, my kid thinks I'm nuts (which is fine) thanks as always for your efforts! Smiling is good for the soul
Nice parody, man. Hahaha. Love chat, huh?

Yes, welcome to KLOV radio. Smooth jazz all the time....Oh, yeaaah. Oh and some Barry White, too. ;)

It's good that the kids are into the hits. My nephews have been into the classic Nintendo games. We may have created monsters.

Chris, I am still waiting for you to take this gig over!  We need fresh parodies!  You got untapped talent!  I can't do this forever!cheeky

Chris is funky-fresh for the 90's
LOL. Sure, Erin. I'm whiter than Vanilla Ice.
Dave, you’re my very favorite relative that I’ve never met!

I sang that parody all the way through. Heard Fred’s voice on “I got me a monitor, it’s as big as a whale.”

Such fun.
Everybody s movin' everybody s groovin' yeah, first coffee
I played the actual song on YouTube while reading this. You have great talent. Maybe Weird Al will hire you as a writer.

So here is the Cousin Connection By the Numbers:

Pip is my 19th Cousin 1xR

Erin is my Good Wikipeep Friend (so far, but who knows?

Chris is my 10th Cousin 1xR

Donna is my 17th Cousin 1XR

Richard is my Good Wikipeep friend (so far but who knows?

Margaret is my 10th Cousin 1xR

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Thank You for hosting the Chat Pip.

Musings from Northeast Ohio on Americas North Coast.

Weather, mostly sunny and warm all week.

Home Front,

This week was a blur. Diane decided that working was too hard on her health so she quit her job. We had more medical appointments for her but she is slowly recovering and they are finding nothing much new so it is just a wait and see thing for now. Hopefully June will be a better month for us.

Genealogy, Nothing much.
by Dale Byers G2G Astronaut (1.8m points)
May her new adventure be more restful.
I really do hope that June is a better month for both of you, Dale.
I remember the day well when I said enough is enough. Coulda shoulda said it 3 years earlier. Hope she shares my sentiments in the years to come.
May June be restorative to you both.
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Greetings from southern Sweden, where we have summer weather around 20 degrees centigrade, even if the winds can be quite cool.

I wrote an exam (actually programming was the task) this week and if I succeed I am done with that course that I took while also working, so it will be nice to be only working from now on. smiley

This weekend for me is a long weekend. On Monday we are just off, and on Tuesday it's the national day of Sweden, and I'm heading to Denmark for a day trip with my (young adult) kids. 

I wish everyone a good weekend where you'll have time to do something you love!

by Maria Lundholm G2G6 Pilot (250k points)
I bet it is beautiful there! It is suppose to be 92 F here (33.5 C) there.
Enjoy your long weekend! A trip with the kids sounds like a great way to celebrate. Take lots of pictures!

Thank you Erin! I always take a lot of photos. laugh

Sweden sounds lovely. Enjoy your Summer
Happy National Day of Sweden, Maria! Enjoy your trip and your long weekend.

Thank you Margaret! Thank you Pip! The day before Sweden's national day is actually the national day of Denmark.

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I strongly considered skipping the chat this week as I'm not in the happiest spot, but decided to share anyway in case someone else might be struggling, know you're not alone. The world only feels big, it's made up of millions of tiny connections so we should all reach out when we can.

I had taken on a project this week that was near and dear to me, however those ones that tug the heartstrings can occasionally pull so hard they knock that heart right out of its socket and get you all out of whack. I was working the USS Arizona pop up for Memorial Day weekend and suffered a nasty PTSD flare. Honoring what those sailors and Marines went through is important work but I need to remember to take it on sparingly. What happened in the World Wars may be very different circumstances than the Gulf War I served in, and Hawaii being attacked is quite disparate from situations in Iraq or Afghanistan, but at the same time, in researching what the individual people went through, I find it's scarily, sadly, similar in some ways too. All war is hell. The human suffering element is unfortunately a string that ties all military experiences together throughout time. I am glad I was able to do what I could, we managed to get nearly 200 profiles up (there were less than 30 when we started) so we are well on the way to honoring the thousand plus who were lost.

Aside from that debacle however, I've been trying to take some time to recuperate. I'm letting some things I know will be taxing fall by the wayside but I have carved out a little time to RAWK some fellow WT'ers. Kindness is the cure. Gifting time and what effort I can spare helps pull me back to the light.

Take care of yourselves this week.
by Erin Robertson G2G6 Pilot (190k points)
=( Hope you feel better soon. It's okay to take a break and relax. Take care, too!
Erin, you are not alone.  Working on these profiles and finding out what people were involved in and the tragedies they faced can lift you up and then send you to bed crying!  I know, I have done that!  Thanks for sharing, because I now know I am not alone!
Erin,

Please take care of yourself and give yourself a lot of grace! I can totally see where a lot of the Military challenges we work on would be overwhelming for you. My dad wouldn't even watch a military movie or television show. He would take us to Shiloh often, and he'd walk around so quietly, just thinking to himself, and then he would tell us some profound something or other (that I'm sure we didn't even get). He wanted us to know the hell war brings on a country and her people, and even 10 days before his death when the Iraq War was fast becoming a reality, he said, I'm ready to go (never mind, he couldn't even get out of bed); I will do anything to keep war overseas and off our shores. He never got over WWII and we, his children, still feel the impact of his PTSD.

Never hesitate to take a step back and regroup. Work on happier projects. Thank you for your service to America.

Hugs!
Erin, thanks for joining the Chat this weekend, despite the things you are going through. You are never alone, and I hope others will take note of that, too.

Take the time you need to find some peace. We will still be here for you.
Erin, my heart goes out to you.  I read last week about your USS Arizona project with admiration for the task you took on.  I had no idea about your Gulf war experience then.  I'm sorry it brought back your PTSD from that time, and hope that you will take the time you need to recover.  Thank you for your service to our country at to the men of the USS Arizona.
WAR IS HELL.  YOU ARE  A SAINT FOR TRYING TO GIVE LIFE BACK TO THOSE WHO GAVE THRIRS IN DEFENSE OF OUR COUNTRY.  i MANAGED TO GET A PROFILE DONE FOR ONE WHO TURNED OUT TO BE MY HUSBAND'S FIRST COUSIN ONCE REMOVED.  hE KNEW NOTHING ABOUT HIM BUT i FOUND CONNECTIONS BASED ON GENEALOGY NOTES HIS mOTHER LEFT ME,  gOD BLRSS YOU HELEN!
(((Hugs))) Erin
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Here in the Denver area, we are having cooler than usual temps.  It is snowing in the mountains and the ski resorts are still going although they will close this weekend.  We will have a bunch of rain for the next week so the gardens are loving it. I did manage to get all the tomatoes and others veggies in so now I have to wait for harvest.

On the genealogy front, I am working the Brownfield family of central Pennsylvania which is an inlaw tree for me. I am making some progress but moving slow as I got a Covid vaccine yesterday and it has really knocked down..
by Gurney Thompson G2G6 Pilot (548k points)
Gurney, getting the vaccine and feeling the effects of that is better than getting the real deal. Hope you feel better SOON!
We have to get our next Covid booster soon, possibly I might find time to do that this week.
Hope you feel better soon. I don’t do much Pennsylvania research, but have recently for a coupe WT challenges and really enjoyed their records on Ancestry.
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Hails and horns, Wikipeeps!

I hope everyone has had a great week. Not much happened on the genealogy front other than writing a blog about at the cemetery: https://allroadhaverhill.blogspot.com/2023/06/52-ancestors-week-22-at-cemetery.html

I wrote about my cemetery run in April and how I hope to go through Walnut once again....prefereably when the sun isn't setting. Still, it was fun and now I have most of the Coppola crew on Find a Grave.  Not bad, right?

I've volunteered to help spruce up the tree of actress Marisa Tomei. Not only is she a great actress but she was probably the best ilive action iteration of "Aunt May" in the Spider-Man movies since Rosemary Harris's portrayal in the early 2000s. Never really liked Sally Field as Aunt May. It just....didn't fit.

Anyway, I followed along with her eps of "Finding Your Roots" AND "Who Do you think you are?" and did what I could for now. I'll be adding more later. I added categories with the help of Frank Santoro and others and brought existing categories up to code.

On the non genealogy front, the nephews have invaded. This is gonna be a fun visit! I hope everyone has a great weekend! Thanks for hosting, Pip!

by Chris Ferraiolo G2G6 Pilot (858k points)
edited by Chris Ferraiolo
I need to start watching genealogy shows! I didn't realizer there were so many, but I find it so fascinating tracking other people's journey of discovery, I'm surprised I haven't found them before now. I did a tiny handful of profiles toward connecting Jane Lynch on the Find Your Roots Challenge, will continue to weave some in when I need a RAWK break.

 I agree, Marisa= best Aunt May by miles.
The genealogy shows are good. But, I think I like "Who Do You Think You Are?" a little bit more because the person gets to actually travel to different places. That just feels more real to me than just sitting across from someone and being told a bunch of stuff. Not saying it isn't good. Gates is awesome. But, I just prefer the traveling aspect, you know?

Marisa was a very good Aunt May. =D Nuff Said! And she was pretty awesome in "My Cousin Vinny".
Oh a CLASSIC!
Chris, I hope you have a blast with your family this weekend.

Nice work on the blog! You oughta share that Weird History video here. I can't find it now.
@ It sure is, Erin. I can quote whole sections of the movie. Hey, Pip? Do you have magic grits? ;)

@ Pip: Ask and you shall recieve.

Here is the Weird History video about the most haunted cemetery in the US. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCXj-tVWZYU

Enjoy. The webseries is pretty cool showcasing all kinds of cool stuff AND showcasing decades. Check out their Timeline series for the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s.
Enjoyed your blog post. Do you know you can order Jeremiah a new headstone for FREE? You will have to install and destroy the original, but this is fantastic for military veterans.
Interesting. His daughter Nellie was the one who ordered it in the first place, I believe.
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This past week:

  • Worked on DNA matches to myself. I've reached the milestone of 100 citations now.
  • Added photos.
  • Weddington Name Study:
    • Found a newspaper clipping about a North Carolina Weddington person (not related to me) by the name of Zeno Weddington (abt. 1790 - bef. 1852). In the last couple of weeks I had correspondence with another researcher that I've been talking with over time, and he had some further evidence that I had his parentage wrong, so I fixed it. The newspaper clipping (several actually over months) was interesting on two counts. It was about a sale of possessions after he passed away, which then allowed me to state some sort of death date, which I didn't have before. The second, is that the tragic part of this clipping is that they were selling slaves. I knew the greater Weddington family had slaves, but I didn't know specifically that he had any. The only good thing in the clipping is that they were named. When I find the time, I'll add them to WT as well.
    • I found another newspaper clipping about my 3rd great grandfather, James Henderson Weddington Sr. (1806 - 1874). It was about a legal case in Russell County, Virginia, which he was a defendant of. It lists a number of people as plaintiffs and a lot of people as defendants, including his wife, my 3rd grandmother, Nancy (Fletcher) Weddington (1809 - 1887). I've never known much about her side of the family until recent DNA matches in the last few weeks led me to family trees online, which I've added that information tentatively on WT. Well, this article is about a lawsuit over land, and everyone listed in the plaintiffs or defendants are all in the Fletcher family, which corroborates the identities and relationships of the online trees that I've seen. It's  probably about land inherited from Nancy's father after he passed away, but I'll know more for sure after further research. I'm still working on adding family members in collateral lines. This little newspaper clipping is kind of a big discovery and is opening up parts of the family tree my family never knew.
  • Remember the story I told a while back about my other 3rd great-grandparents, Jeremiah (Jerry) Brown (abt. 1823 - abt. 1901) and his wife Mary "Mollie" Thacker (1834 - 1912)? It was a bit of a soap opera. Seems after her and Jerry had 4 kids, she had an affair with her sister's brother-in-law (sister's husband's brother), Greenville Thacker, and as a result they had a child together. Greenville was married too. After the affair, divorces occurred (assumed) and Mollie and Greenville were married later. Well, I found out something new to the story: Jerry's service record in the U. S. Civil War. He enlisted on 15 September 1862, and served as a Private in Company D, 39th Regiment Kentucky Infantry, on the Union side. He was discharged on 25 August 1865. Well, Mollie and Greenville's son was born in September 1865. It seems Mollie had the affair while Jerry was away serving the Union Army in the Civil War. So here's a lesson in looking at timing and the context of historical events. Who knows if she thought he was dead, or if she thought the indiscretion would not be found out, or what. Can you imagine what Jerry must have felt after serving almost 3 years in a brutal war to come home and find out his wife is nearly 9 months pregnant with a child that wasn't his? Jerry and Mollie's children were 10, 9, 7 and 6 years old at the time. How did they feel about what was going on? The 9 year old, Sarah, was my 2nd-great-grandmother and the only daughter. She ended up getting pregnant at the age of 16 with a man 12 years older than her (James H. Weddington Jr., my 2nd great grandfather). They likely eloped (to Missouri) where she lied about her age to get married. Did she do this, in part, to get away from her family? They seemed to have a long, successful marriage with 9 children. Did Sarah want to show that she was not like her mother? This is also a lesson in understanding that people in the past behaved like people now. Only the times have changed. 
  • Of course that led me down a rabbit hole of this particular regiment in the Civil War. Seems I have several extended family members or connected people in the same regiment. 

I'm at the point where I'm finding too many good sources to keep up with. I don't have time to get everything on profiles or in the way that I want to. I suppose that's a good problem to have though.

by Eric Weddington G2G6 Pilot (549k points)
Wow, great finds! How do you find newspaper articles, do you pay for a subscription or just luck across them in research? The more research I do the more I want to be able to do.

Hi Erin,

I have an all-access subscription to Ancestry and that includes to newspapers.com. Although I'm not thrilled about the price of it. I'm constantly on the fence about the cost.

But, a fantastic free newspaper resource is Chronicling America from the Library of Congress. That should keep you busy for some time. ;-) Note that they don't have all newspapers, but they do have a lot. Some of it overlaps with newspapers.com.

Another free newspaper sources that I recently found out about is Fulton History. Their user interface is a throwback to the 90s it seems, but they have newspapers that aren't in either newspapers.com nor Chronicling America. But they have a smaller amount too, so you're not always able to find anything. Just depends.

I'll definitely have to check those out, thanks! Ancestry is out of my budget for now unfortunately but I definitely do what I can with free resources
The drama keeps the research exciting; sounds like you had a terrific week.
Eric, I find that in certain Confederate companies, I have a whole bunch of relatives, mostly out of the same neighborhood (or adjoining ones). Makes for interesting family history.

And, I have also seen estate notices in newspapers back in the 1850s where relatives, including one ancestor, had slaves that were being sold.
Pip, I have found the same thing in my Tennessee Union units. I click the connection button (WT category) to the 6th Tennessee Cavalry USA and I have some sort of connection with almost all of them. One of my favorite things about WT.
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On This Day:

455: The Sack of Rome starts

1924: The Indian Citizenship Act guarantees indigenous people in the United States the American citizenship

1964: The Palestine Liberation Organization is founded

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.6m points)
I think I'll read up on the Sack of Rome. The PLO might be another interesting read... if I find the time to squeeze it in. Thanks, Professor!
+20 votes

Thanks Pip for hosting the Weekend Chat!  You do not get paid enough!  

This month:

Goal 1: I have to replace the fascia board on the west side of the house!.  The gutter has to come down, rotting wood replaced...not a tough job for a young man...not so much for me.

Goal 2:  I am hoping to visit the Iowa Historical Society this month and discuss more about the Underground Railroad my GG Grandfather was involved in.  Thanks to Melissa Jamison, my PIP mentor, we pretty much finished the profile of Ira Dillingham Draper where she discovered so many sources. (I think she did all of the research work for the Iowa HS on this profile) This profile is probably going to give all the other great profiles on WikiTree a "run for their money!"  She has a rare technique and we all can learn a lot from Melissa,  So take a peek at the profile to see how she organized and formatted everything. 

Discovery 1:  I started helping my wife find her gg and beyond grandparents on her dad's side of the family.  I brick walled early in,  The surname I was looking for was "Sweet" (Sweet is the last name) Brick wall on Find A Grave and nothing on Family Search, So, I changed search strategy and decided to search for any and all "Sweet" burials in Illinois.  Found them, then followed everyone until I found an Obituary in one of the Find A Grave Memorials.  ALL THE FAMILY WAS LISTED!  The smoking gun I needed.  I created so many new profiles and still have more to go that will fill in her family!  SWEET! (Pun intended!)  Ironically, some are buried in the same cemetery, but Find A Grave never connected them as family.

Have a great chat this weekend!  Thanks to all for sharing your life with us!wink

by David Draper G2G Astronaut (4.7m points)
So glad for your sweet Sweet find!
Those discoveries keep us all going!
Sweet work there, David! Congrats on the results of your dogged research.
Is there other Find a Grave equivalents in the USA?

I know BillionGraves, but I don't find them much use in Canada.
+24 votes
As some of you are aware, my left hip broke three years ago
and the hip replacement surgery left me with a very wonky
walking balance result.  One muscle did not hold stitches.  Fast forward to April 23.  We had a very rare earthquake vibration in our area.  I felt it and stood up from my chair to look at the clock to see what time it was.  Without my cane in my hand upon standing, I lost my balance to a tremble  and landed on the floor along with my ironing board which I grabbed for balance.  Thank heavens for my landline help
monitor system.  It got me help.  I spent 5 days in the hospital and then three and a half weeks in a nursing home
with a broken femur, damaged knee and suspected cracked ankle bone.  A three week later x-ray downgraded the ankle to soft tissue damage, i.e. a severely sprained ankle. I have been home recovering for four days, only allowed to walk using my walker for three weeks until I can put full weight on my right foot.  A sprain is harder to recover from than a broken bone.  My foot is just beginning to look normal, not like a football.  Therapy is coming to my home, beginning today, probably for four weeks.   Wikitree is benefiting by my inactivity.  I sit with my leg elevated on a folding chair and cushion and spend my time sourcing profiles when I get bored with tv.  I am encouraged with my rapid recovery pace, based on all the remarks from therapists and people in the know at the hospital and nursing home.  Although it seems much too slow for my
satisfaction.  Grandma's taxi service is suffering the most.
My goal is to be able to join my 69th high school graduation
group at our yearly school alumni reunion on June 24.  I just sent in my
reservation after having been predicted to not be out in circulation until the possibility  of into July!
by Beulah Cramer G2G6 Pilot (614k points)
edited by Beulah Cramer
So sorry to hear of your injury but happy for your healing process. May it go even a little faster for you. Lucky WT to benefit from your misfortune

Gah! Glad to hear that you're recovering, but stop hurting yourself! laugh

I can't even begin to imagine a 69th high school graduation, Beulah. I have never gone to any of mine, but I am in touch with 2 close friends from high school. I hope you get photos while you're there and if there are any photos from your high school graduation that they are uploaded to WikiTree.

Get better soon!

I keep thinking I will recover from my awful high school experience and want to go to a reunion at some point but so far not enough decades have gone by to where I want to see people. I do have two good friends I still talk to but I skipped a grade so they weren't even in my graduating class! Further complicates my dilemma of whether to attend a reunion...I hope you have great fun at yours Beulah!
I sure hope you are able to attend your high school reunion! Work hard at Rehab and enjoy your special day.
Oh, Beulah! I am so sorry about your fall and injuries. I really do hope you make a quick(er) recovery. This is just terrible!
Beulah, something tells me if you want to be there, you will. You sound like you are tuffer than $2 steak! Best wishes on your recovery.
Beulah, I am so sorry to learn about your horrible fall and the injuries. I am very glad to hear that you are recovering and that you are able to spend some of that time working on WikiTree! That is a plus for us all! Take care of yourself and keep us updated on your recovery.
PRAYER FOR SPEEDY HEALING.  i HAVE A ROLLING WALKER FOR SHORT WALK AND AN ELECTRIC MOBILITY SCOOTER FOR LONGER TRIPS.   iT IS A CLASS 2 MEDICAL DEVICE SO MEDICAIR COVERS UP TO 80% OF THE COST.  yOU NEED A DOCTOR TO FILL OUT THE RIGHT FORM THAT BASICALLY SAYS YOU CAN'T WALK UNASSISTED WHICH WE CAN'T.
Oh no! I hope that you feel better soon! (((Hugs)))
+23 votes
Pleasant weather we've been having.....sunny with a refreshing breeze.  I took a load of trimmings to the burning pile with the yard tractor, loaded with implements of destruction, and when I parked near the blackberry patch I could hear them talking to each other, " He's an invasive species".
by John Thompson G2G6 Pilot (401k points)

"He's an invasive species." Hahaha!! 

hi John, the Llangollen steam railroad had it's grand opening this weekend, you might want to check out the website.

Checkout the new station at Corwen.

All the best, James

Hi James, seems like a long time since we heard from you. We stayed at the Chainbridge Hotel just outside Llangollen last July. 

We could see the steam trains at Berwyn Station from the hotel, lovely views, nice hotel but parking is an adventure!  Try turning a car around in this space without backing over the viaduct. 

Car park and canl - Picture of Chainbridge Hotel, Llangollen - Tripadvisor

Hi M., yea that's a beautiful spot, and very historic.

I've missed the chat, but, have been taking care of two stage 4 relatives for a while now and it keeps me busy, one thing they do enjoy is me breading thenthe projects and the chat, on here so as you can imagine time gets used up.

Best to all, James
Thankyou for the steam train invitation, James, I've just returned from a Google Map journey, this morning, to visit the railway and the wonderful scenery.....earlier this year I studied the Llangollen Canal.
M, earlier this year I discovered a photo of my grand uncle Sidney Annesley Benwell's son, Douglas, beside a house on his property in Brynore near Ellesmere, Shropshire, which led me to find the Llangollen Canal and some 15 miles away, the location of your photo.
Hi John, I lived on a 70 foot narrowboat for almost 10 years on the Llangollen canal. Best part was if you want to go traveling you can take your house with you.
James  from our earlier conversations about narrowboats I got hooked on studying and following canals.....fun and interesting!
Yes the best part is if you don't like your neighbors, you can untie and move or, wait till late night and untie them and watch them drift off down the canal.
Or as my father, a naval officer, explained, when visiting officers, who you disagreed with, were returning to their ship, you could politely tell them to 'shove off'.
+24 votes

Good Morning WikiTree Cousins,

I had a fantastic Memorial Day weekend starting with Sunday, May 21st, when My sister, her family, and I set new Military headstones for our ancestors, John Vaughn and John Brown, who served with the Sixth Tennessee Cavalry, USA, during the American Civil War. Their previous stones were totally illegible and it is free to order a new stone. One is responsible for installing the new one and destroying the old one.

On Friday, May 26, I went back to the Cemetery, cleaned the stones, and placed flags and flowers for their graves. I also placed flags on two other family members at the same cemetery. I enjoyed driving the backroads looking at a few other cemeteries in the same neck of the woods.

Saturday, May 27, My daughter and I went to Memphis to visit the Zao Wou-Ki exhibit at the Dixon Gallery and Gardens. This is an inspiring exhibit and the gardens are beautiful this time of year. What is a trip to Memphis without visiting Barnes and Noble's book store? We sure had a good time.

Monday was Memorial Day and I generally spend the day at Shiloh National Military Park and this year was the same. There is something about looking across this huge cemetery with a sea of US Flags waving in the breeze; makes one grateful for the service of those who gave their all. Shiloh Memorial Day 2023!

We have had beautiful weather in West Tennessee this week, which makes being outside delightful. This is my favorite time of year as I sit on the front porch listening and watching birds, squirrels and other wildlife.

I am working on the RAWK project this month and Monday will start on the June Civil War Challenge, Camp Chase Confederate Cemetery. These soldiers died as POWs during the American Civil War and it is rewarding to make sure they are remembered.

Hope everyone has a great weekend. Life is short, do genealogy first.

by M. Meredith G2G6 Pilot (168k points)
I want to visit Shiloh after working those profiles on a challenge a little while back. I'm closest to Arlington in terms of "big" national cemeteries but always take my cub scouts to lay wreaths at the smaller national cemetery in Suffolk at the holidays. So glad you were able to get new stones for your ancestors!
I'm glad you take your cub scouts to lay wreaths; very meaningful! Of course, our boys laid wreaths at Shiloh and Corinth (Mississippi) National Cemeteries every year. Sometimes I'd just walk around and cry. I so want to go to Arlington some day.

If you are ever near Shiloh, I highly recommend it; most beautiful battlefield I have visited.
Wow, you DID have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend, Margaret!
Erin, I second Margaret’s reply. Shiloh is beautiful.
+22 votes
Greetings from Lone Jack, Mo.

Finally got a little rain a couple days ago. Maybe some garden can grow now. Finally got new HVAC, now I can sleep like a baby again. No more dog and coyote serenades, no more 3 am hoot owls outside the window. I will miss the bullfrog's invitation to visit the pond. Season just opened on him, so his days are numbered anyway. He, as well as several descendants and relatives, will be imitation chicken dinners in a week or two.

Tomorrow will be no walk in the park; but I will be there for Parkapaloosa. Still not sure what it is but, I did volunteer to hang out and talk to people about the Historical Society and Museum.
by K Smith G2G6 Pilot (440k points)
HVAC just in time for summer. I know you are enjoying that, K. We have coyotes around here, but haven't seen any, just hear them on occasion. And, I'm sure I'll never see those hoot owls that live nearby.
We have had a report of a mountain lion sighting last week. Most roll their eyes and scoff at the idea. I've seen signs of big cats as well as cats themselves that were far enough away that you're just not positive of what you saw. One night while processing a deer, I had a coyote dragging guts out of the gut bucket just outside the door.
The Lone Jack Historical Society is proving to be the preverbal missing link. This morning I was enjoying the cool air coming from the vents, I was reading some biographies of some of the women from the civil war. Prudence Miller Woodfin proved to be very interesting. I seemed to have remembered that name as one of four wives of GGgrandpa AADalton. Sure enough, turns out they were cousins. I connected the two profiles and gained 80 on CC7. But wait, there's more. Sarah's mom is listed as Martha E Miller Woodfin. FamilySearch has her parents listed as William Pierce and Nancy Jane Hart. My GGgrandfather Alfred Pierce was born in 1860 and is a brickwall. William was born in in 1793 and had 11 sons. I'm thinking I will find a connection for grandpa Alfred and or Charlie Pierce who rode with the Dalton Gang. Either way, I'm thinking pretty cool find. Found a diamond while looking for gold. If I said just my luck, that would be the biggest lie I ever told.
Great story! Hope you find your missing Grandpa Pierce soon. Sounds like he may be hiding very close.
The sources are thin and at least 2 sets of twins in 16 children if info is correct. There is some sketchy info but, still the best clue in almost a year. Maybe an illegitimate child raised till marrying age. She married at 14 to a Woodfin and I believe had a child who married a Miller.
Park-a-poloosa was pretty much a bust! Talked to one of the old guys in the band (the band was pretty good by the way) who happened by. He assured me he shall return to the museum. Not only did he play a mean guitar, but he was also a retired history teacher.
+23 votes

Hei fra Norge,

I told you last week I won't be in Germany this weekend, and here I am in Oslo, Norway. This is the week-long trip mum presented me for my birthday and I could decide out of five cities where we would go. So I sat one afternoon in February after doing my weekly Rangers shift and booked a flight to Oslo and a hotel. We arrived yesterday afternoon and today we went to see Vigelandspark, where there are hundreds of sculptures of Gustav Vigeland and some colleagues. (I deliberately linked to the Norwegian version this time because it has more pictures in the article than the English version.)

Tomorrow we want to see the Munch-museum, which is actually the (second) biggest reason why I chose Oslo. I want to see more of those hundreds of paintings Edvard Munch left Norway after his death. I hate the fact that he is reduced mainly to the Scream. The biggest reason why I wanted to go to Oslo is to see how far I would come to terms with my Duolingo-Norwegian. Turns out, in Oslo I understand quite a bit, although I still often switch to English. But hey, today it was the first time that I ordered something completely in Norwegian without the need to switch the language.

Genealogically - category cleaning and yesterday literally nearly nothing. I still don't have ten contributions this month.

Ok, that's it for now, the evening program.is waiting for us.

by Jelena Eckstädt G2G Astronaut (1.6m points)
Jelena, how exciting to be on vacation!

Ha en god tur i Oslo!
Wow! Sounds like a wonderful trip! Enjoy.
I went to the Munch Museum last month and loved it! I didn't know much about Edvard Munch until going to the museum, except for the scream. The monumental room is amazing. I enjoyed the audio tour for this room. Enjoy!

I saw those Vigeland artworks somewhere, in something else I was reading. The fella had a unique vision.  And I have used Edvard Munch in conversations to make a point. This sounds like a great trip, Jelena, What a wonderful birthday present.

+23 votes
Hello, Pip and all the friendly cousins. Here in Everett, Washington it is sunny and the temperature is in the 60s. Daughter and I are going downtown this evening to pick up some apparel that we ordered online yesterday. I am done with shopping in malls. If the black dress is too short I can always add some stretch lace to the bottom, as I did with the gray Marvel comics heroes dress that I got at Hot Topic some years ago. But I have found nothing since in Hot Topic that I, a 68 year old, find inspiring.

Yet I find that genealogy makes me happier than sewing. Genealogy all happens on the computer. No mess, no fuss, and no guilt over what I've left undone. Plus I am always wondering whether I "should" use that scrap of fabric in this or that project. My motto: piece drunk, quilt sober. Pay very little attention to whether I "should" place it somewhere, and just get 'er done. Makes for many crazy blocks and string piecing.

As the month flips over, and the Memorial Day ceremony is behind me, I renew my effort to find anything about the unknown soldier in the Mukilteo Pioneer Cemetery. The burial list (handwritten) shows him as "Soldier McAlster," following the DeSelle children who died in the late 1880s. Accordingly, the grave marker (which reads "McCalsu" due to a misreading of the handwriting) is placed near these children's grave. It's not placed with the earliest burials, which include three Civil War veterans, dating from the 1870s.

Accordingly, I have been looking for McAlisters or similarly spelled surnames in Mukilteo before 1920. One soldier, who lived briefly in Mukilteo in the early 1900s, is not buried here but at the Veterans' Home in Retsil. I have honed in on a McCallister family that lived in Lowell, just around the river bend from Mukilteo, in the late 1880s. My candidate for the unknown soldier is https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/McCallister-950 , one William McCallister, who is in the 1887 Territorial Census, residing in Lowell, and who is not with wife and son in the 1889 census. There are no county death records for that period. I did not find him in the county probate cases. I have no proof that he died in Mukilteo (although he could have) and no proof that he was a soldier. His son and his brother, however, did serve in the 1st Oregon Infantry during the Rogue River War of 1855-1860, at which time William McCallister was living in that part of Oregon. This is the tantalizing set of circumstances that I am researching. I am not going public with it until I can say something definite.

Finding something in a newspaper would definitely help. The spelling of the surname is a challenge when applying search engines. I found something online from a San Francisco paper about the murder of William's brother, Richard, by his own son, John McCallister, who went to the Oregon State Pen at the age of 15.

I added a few veterans, a WW II and a Vietnam casualty, from Mukilteo to WikiTree this past week. More people than ever before came to me after my talk with questions and comments.

I am waiting a call from the president of the Historical Society about going to the bank to open a new Certificate of Deposit account. Don't know if she made the appointment for today or not.

Take all care with your brains and your other body parts this week until we chat again.
by Margaret Summitt G2G6 Pilot (360k points)
My brain is semi mush. And my feet are still working.

That's a great find! I've seen records of McCallisters in Western Oregon.
Luv your quilting motto! I sometimes help my sister lay out quilt blocks. Wonder if she will allow me to drink a little wine the next time?? Haha.
I adore your quilting strategy. I find I get too fussy sometimes trying to find the "perfect" placement, would be nice to just let creativity fly and let go a little!

 Rogue River War of 1855-1860: I had to look that one up. Either I was asleep in history class or it was never discussed. The latter I think more probably true. You did some real detective work there, Margaret!

+22 votes

Greetings from Rochester, Minnesota USA!

Temp: 85°F

Humidity: 44%

Currently Doing: Drinking coffee.

Genealogy Projects: During my downtime, I've put myself into a couple of projects. Besides RAWKing it, I'll help with fixing up Sterling K. Brown's tree. The USBH, Notables and Jewish Roots projects are going attempt to increase the CC7 of Finding Your Roots previous guests! We had a Zoom meeting last Wednesday evening and chatted with Nick Sheedy, one of the Lead Genealogists for Finding Your Roots. It was very educational! 

Nursing Projects: My current position (trained medication aide) involves a lot more autonomy, time management and (gasp)... multitasking. Multitasking is not my strong suit; however, it will help to be a healthcare professional and volunteer genealogist. 

I'll leave the personal information out of this weekend chat. Life is good but complex. I'm looking at a small library in the coffee shop that has C.S. Lewis on the bookshelf. 

The clouds are rolling in so we might get some precipitation this afternoon. 

by Eileen Robinson G2G6 Pilot (235k points)
Eileen, multitasking has never been my strong suit, either. When I am trying to do that, I feel the same as when I am looking at a menu with far too many items on it. I get kinda paralyzed.
+23 votes

We have just been surprised with a great granddaughter......last fall I calculated the due date would be in June and, hey, it is June already!   Yesterday evening, looking out the window, I saw, not an eagle flying by, but a stork......should have known!  laugh

by John Thompson G2G6 Pilot (401k points)
Congrats on the family addition. I hope Dawg is not the jealous type. Better practice the two-handed belly rub just in case.
Warm congratulations to you and your family, John!
Dawg can be jealous of other animals but just adores people.

Thankyou Maria, it's been several years since great grand children have been born in our family......excitement all over again.   PS   Our great grand daughter has been named Maria.  smiley

That's not a bad name, John! laugh

I was hoping you would like the name, Maria, I do.  smiley

Congratulations on your new blessing.
Thankyou Margaret, the mother wished to choose, for a second name, Oaklynne while the father suggested Rose, which the mother liked......Maria's second name is now Oaklynne-Rose.
Congrats on the little one.
Thankyou Jelena.....while I am documenting our past she is leading our way into the future.
Aww, babies are always blessings. Congratulations.

Thankyou Erin, it just came into my memory that this baby's grandmother, our oldest daughter, had a daughter at the same time as her youngest sister was born.....oh what fun!   And, Erin, glad you joined the Chat this weekend.  smiley

Woohoo!!!! Congrats to you, John!

A stork... that's funny.
Thankyou Pip, the Great Blue Heron Nature Reserve is about a mile and a half upriver from us.....as the stork flies.
+21 votes
Happy weekend, everyone!  Finally wrapped up my committee task, at least the part with a real deadline.  Just some emails to send now.  Mowed the lawn a couple of days ago (no thanks to the landscapers who ditched us) and spent this morning doing trail maintenance by the campus pond so my research students can get back there more easily.  I'll be feeling it tomorrow...

Skating has been fun for the past couple of weeks. We had a sub coach last week who taught us one of the beginner ice dances (the Cha Cha).  This week we got to have some fun putting our own little programs together.  A bit of skating improv.

We saw Spider-Man: Across the Spiderverse last night.  It was awesome!  (And Amazing!)  Features one of my very favorite ridiculous super-villains.

Genealogy:  still plugging away at my husband's colonial lines and DNA clusters.  There are a couple of clusters that are going to be tough to connect.  I may be close to stalling out unless I get lucky with the paper trail.  Back to it now, if I can get my cat off the keyboard...
by Lisa Hazard G2G6 Pilot (273k points)
Ah, cats on the keyboard. Story of my life.
Finally, you get your own schedule back, Lisa. Planning any trips this summer?
Maybe, Pip!  I find out tomorrow (I think) whether I get funding to attend a conference in July.  And there will be at least one family trip for my mom's 75th bday celebration.  Other than that, nothing planned, but maybe some day trips.
+22 votes

Hello from Christchurch. It is a very cold 6 degrees Celsius today only predicted to rise to 13 degrees Celsius. It is the start of the first King's Birthday Weekend here in New Zealand so it is a Public Holiday on Monday. Been rather busy doing night shifts in my Security job and was assigned a new role supervising static guards at some specific sites. 

On the Wikitree front I can technically claim a 60 for 15 badge for the 15 for 15 challenge (Just have to add my contribution tally for the exact figure). I have also dropped my watchlist a further 31 profiles to sit at 5839. Of course every profile removed from my watchlist is a none direct family member with a improved biography with appropriate categories added. 

by Darren Kellett G2G6 Pilot (540k points)
Good for your watchlist improvements. I have to go thru mine after every challenge and still have difficulty keeping it below 5000.

Enjoy your Monday Holiday.
I never get around to shrinking my watchlist so good on you! I really need to get in there and just hug some barely-related or non-related profiles goodbye.
Darren, didn't you folks have another earthquake out there? I don't know if you get them frequently or not. I think I just read about it on the news. In any case, hope all is well with you and yours!
+20 votes

Hello again from Flatlandia! It’s been toasty and sunny here for a couple of days. Although it’s not official yet it was beginning to feel like summer was never going to get here. Just wait, in a few weeks I’ll probably be complaining that it’s too hot. 

On the genealogy front I’m one of the 5 that are being RAWKed this month. It’s exciting and difficult to keep from peeking but I’ve been pretty good at not checking anything out. Helping the other RAWKees is helping to take up my time and attention. 

I’ve also been adding profiles to the USS Arizona space page and I want to get some in for the Civil War project, too. Those will help with my 15 for 15 since I haven’t been keeping up with that. 

Y’all have a great weekend and thanks for hosting, Pip!!

by Donna Lancaster G2G6 Pilot (113k points)
I am enjoying this RAWK event as well. I added a few USS Arizona sailors over the weekend; broke my heart. I could only manage a few, but would like to go back and continue adding. I am looking forward to the CW challenge that starts Monday. CW soldiers are a little farther removed and I do better with them for the most part.

Hope your CC7 boomerangs.
I fully understand it being overwhelming working on the Arizona profiles. I burnt out a little bit cause I was also watching Band of Brothers while profiling them. Now I need a little break.
Thanks for the work you put in on the Arizona and CW profiles, ladies. I'll revisit soon and add one at a time, every little bit gets us closer. It was hard not to ruin my surprises when I was being RAWKed, but I took the same tactic as you, RAWKing the other selectees.
Congrats on being picked for a RAWKing, Donna. I am so glad for you. Can't wait to hear what the RAWKers find out for you.
Thanks! Me too, Pip.

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