I have to admit to an occasion when I was wrongly accused of attempting to impersonate a Native American. The story, however, provides an eye opener about how labels applied to people get changed and the old label becomes politically incorrect or racist or whatever you want to call it, while many people are unaware of the change.
It was 1979 and I was filling out the financial aid forms for my son's college application. There was a question about race (although I don't remember the word used - it might have been ethnicity or something different) that offered 4 choices to check - African American, Hispanic American, Native American, and Other. I scratched my head, since I was accustomed to being able to select Caucasian for this item but it wasn't there. I had never before heard the term "Native American", but looking at the choices, I decided that fit me best, since I was born in the United States.
A couple of weeks after sending in the form, I received a letter asking what tribe I belonged to and what reservation I lived on. I just figured they were nuts, so I politely replied that I am not an Indian and don't belong to any tribe and live in a suburb of New York City, not a reservation.
The next thing I received was a nasty threatening letter, telling me that it's illegal to misrepresent myself as a Native American in order to get financial aid, etc., etc. I finally figured out that I should have identified my race as "Other", but still didn't understand why I am not considered a native American, nor why it is now considered a race.
I often wring my hands about words that I grew up using, without any racial connotations, have now morphed into being considered racial slurs. Now we have European Americans (with subsets for specific countries), African Americans, Asian Americans, Native Americans, and who-knows-how-many-other-kinds of Americans. What ever happened to Theodore Roosevelt's idea that a person who identifies as a hyphenated American needs to make up his/her mind which nationality their loyalty lies with and use the single term to designate it ... and since when has nationality become blurred with race?
Sorry to have run on so. Now I'll wait to see how long it takes for someone to flag this comment as either a rant, off topic, or offensive ... honest, I really don't mean any of those things - just a comment on how language changes, trapping older folks who never knew there was anything wrong with a word they used all their lives, but are now accused of racism when they haven't kept up with language style changes.