I think you maybe looking for a different Enoch L Stephens. I have him in NC censuses in 1830, 1840, 1850, 1860 and 1870. His wife's name was Mary Ann Tatum Stephens. I think he may have been married prior to her. in 1850 census he had listed 2 people, Virginia C. Stephens and a John Stephens. Mary Ann wasn't quite old enough to be their natural mother. I don't know if they are his children, siblings cousins or what.