I know that after 30 days I see it in Pending Merges Waiting for Action by Me IF one of them is on my watchlist but if neither is on my watchlist but I proposed the merge do I see it there?
hit this link on the pending merges page.... <!-- Link to show merges proposed by user should appear if:
The type is not pending
The type is pending and the requestor is not the viewing user.
--> Pending Merges Initiated by Me