Important is always to leave in both bio's a remark as for example [[Van_Zijl-419|Johannes van Zijl]] was disconnected as spouse for the profile of [[Steyn-29|Hans Jurgen Steyn]] by [[Ronel Olivier]] and the date ....
Moreover, I always go to the changes tab and see how it could have happened. When did who make the same-sex spousal connection? It might have been unintentional, it might be someone who was vandalising, or it might be a sign of something else such as conflation of generations ...