Nan thank you for responding , at this point in time like Dale said , the merges got done. I just no longer feel like making any effort to continue my commitment to maintain my profiles. A new person who is going to be very good at doing the wikitree thing is co-manager on many of the direct family that is important to me . I'm going to step aside for awhile and let her work with them. Like I said she's very good. At least until I feel like I'm not being trampled over and like my work is not good enough. I only have about 150 profiles I can't work them all at the same time. It obvious I am working alot of them and I don't see why people feel the need to edit a profile when they could just leave a comment on the bulletin board. I'm tried of being told by people that they are busy they don't have time to add sources , explain why they did something they don't have time to collaborate , but they have time to spout out comments about " after all the work they are doing is building wikitree. And the tree belongs to everyone." I met my commitment to source my unsourced profiles I created so I'm done. At least for now. So thanks again Nan.