I did see that one,and it was one I considered, and one I'll look more into. The aunt and uncle I don't have even a first name for, and don't know if it was a sister, or a brother, and which one the in law was. Its just like living in a Neverland, and trying to find truth! I can find nothing on Mildred, his birth mother, as far as Crow goes. I've checked the 1940 census for her, and nothing. Here is the strange thing though. My dad's adoptive father isn't even listed in the 1940 census, nor is his wife, and "mother" of my dad. She isn't listed with a maiden name or her married name of Kunkel, and even more strange is that they both ran businesses in Enid, and I can find a brother to Kunkel.
If someone were to go only by the 1940 census, none of them seem to exist at all! I KNOW the Kunkels lived here. Mildred Crow showed me the building she worked in when she was pregnant with my dad, and if she hadn't given him that photo that said Walter Holt on the back, I would dismiss her entirely. But it was such an exact replica of my dad's face in that picture, she must be the real mother. Just really strange, all of it. OK, off to check the skiatook links. Its roughly a 3 hour drive from here, but in Osage Nation, so, part of the Cherokee Reservation, and very possibly where I will find the correct information. Again, thanks!