Hi Thomas,
I see that you joined WikiTree in January, and it looks like you created your own account, i.e. logged-in as a guest, instead of following an invitation from a family member.
I do see another profile on your Watchlist, for a Tom Bennett, created by Larry Vassaur.
(If this Tom Bennett is you, you should complete the merge I just proposed. You will get an e-mail about it.)
If Larry is your family member, go to his profile and request to be added to his Trusted List. He can add you to other family members' Trusted Lists as well.
http://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Vassaur-20
Chris