This is my great-grandmother, Caroline Augusta Mildeberger Keating. After an indescretion with a young man by the name of James Timothy Keating, she and her family picked up and left Spring Valley NY for New Haven Connecticut, where 7 months later she gave birth to my great grand-uncle John Edwin (seen center). She bore another son, my great-grandfather Herbert James Keating. James Timothy abandoned the family at a certain point, leaving Carrie a "Grass Widow" as they used to say. She lived with her sister Irene until her death in 1895 from breast cancer at the young age of 34. Irene also succumbed to cancer in 1899.
Apparently James T Keating was such an unpleasant fellow that my great grand-uncle changed his name from Keating to Keeting "so that his father couldn't find him when he got married." (James T, btw, went on to marry either 2 or 3 more times, without bothering with the petty details of a divorce! )
I feel a great kinship with Carrie, and think that she had a terribly sad short life. Her parents were left to raise not only her sons, but those left by Irene also.(Irene had married Elmer Ellsworth Hayes from Monroe, Connecticut, and her children are related to President Rutherford Hayes.)
I wanted to share this family photo of Carrie Mildeberger with the community. Location: New Haven, Connecticut. Date: .
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