Hi, I have two Christmas cards, one from 1961, one earlier, signed "The Gay Dokkens." No envelopes, hence no return address. One has a note on the back, signed "Eleanor." I'm trying to identify the couple. Perhaps "Gay Dokken" is a nickname (Gay was once a man's nickname) for Milo Gerhard Dokken. The US Census for 1940 (Queens, NY) shows a Milo Gerhard and Eleanor Dokken.
I'm sorry, I don't see a way to insert an image in this post -- just a link -- and I don't have a URL to provide.
P.S. Here's a headstone that might be this couple: