Yes Magnus, as I said in my original question "merge pending but no idea how long".
With respect it seems you have completely missed my point so I will try any spell it out again.
When I am in the screen adding a child and the child potentially has two mothers of identical name for which I have to select an option button for one or other (or neither), there is absolutely no visual indication as to which one is the mother i need to select, in other words in this case the earlier of the two identical profiles.
What is required is that when you hover you get the profile ID of the person in a similar manner to when you hover over a parent's name in the edit screen on the right hand side.
Because I don't know which is which i have resorted to not selecting either and then going back in and adding the correct mother by profile ID. This is a waste of time when it would be simple to add an identifier on the hover.
Sorry if I did not make this clear enough.