One would think, with such a unique name, that there would be some trace of this woman! But I am searching for any sources for Amphilady (Anphilday, Annphilady, Arphilday, etc)
Conjecture:
Born: 1762-42 in Granville, NC, USA or Elbert County, Georgia
Married: 1782ish
Death: 1804ish.