@Terri I agree. If you offer help to an adoptee then you should follow through. This project was started without enough experienced adoption angels. Honestly the project isn't equipped to handle this. It's a roller roasting searching for your biological parents. I was adopted and have helped numerous adoptees find their parents using DNA. There are adoption angel groups out there with years of experience.
http://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Project:Adoption_Angels
http://www.wikitree.com/contact/adoption/ After the form is submitted it goes to the google group. Then the adoptee is added to the pending section of the angels sandbox.
An angel then volunteers to help the adoptee.
Over a hundred adoptee's who submitted forms. Not many have been added to the pending section.
Several members are upset that they were never contacted and I don't blame them. If we offer the help we should give it. If we can't then stop accepting the forms.