I have little trouble understanding your wording. "first" what? I assume by Whipped out you mean eliminated? But it's clear from your Family Tree &Tools that you have Josephine Mizener-16 as John's mother and wife both. So do what RJ says and disconnect her from whichever connection is wrong and that should fix things, though you may want to see if the actual mother or spouse will appear in the correct place or are also connected wrongly or haven't been entered yet or what. It looks like you've been pretty busy entering profiles but haven't done much on G2G, so you might want to read some of the other threads here and ask more questions and catch on to some of the tricks to solving problems on WikiTree. It may seem a waste of time just reading and chatting, but in the long run it will pay off.