I saw your post and I thought maybe I could find something and this is what I found.
1860 Census Itawamba, Mississippi
Milton Whitehead -born Tenn, age 45 ---Sarah B Whitehead -age 34, ---John S. Whitehead -age 16, --Zacchues W. Whitehead -age 14, --Minerva N. Whitehead - age 11, --Sina A - age 7, --Syretha Whitehead -age 4, --Frances T -age 2. -- John A Wilson - age 15, -Sarah E Wilson - age 13, Virginia A Wilson - age 11, --Mary A Wilson -age 8, and Laura J Wilson - age 6.
1870 Census Dist. 3, Lee, Miss.
Milton F. Whitehead age 54; Sarah B. Whitehead age 44; - Margaret N -age 18; Mary A - age 17; Laura J. -age 16, Elizabeth L. - age 15; Francis J. -age 12; Melton B.-age 9; Huber Whitehead -age 7
I also found at least I think this may be him; I am not sure but I did find on Ancestry.com that a Frank Whitehead died June 22, 1882 and he is buried in the Happy Valley Cemetery- Morrisville and I think this cemetery is in Tennessee. I have not had time to go and locate this grave, but I hope this helps and If you need me to do any other research, just let me know. Thanks, Nancy