Fellow TMG refugee here, Sharon. Like you, I found TMG easy and accommodating of all the little odd bits of data that I seemed to find. Unfortunately, I took a 10 year hiatus and missed the last two updates, coming back to research two months after the last sale date. I'm stuck with version 7. I've tried RootsMagic, Legacy, Family Historian, and RootsTrust. While looking for that last name, I ran across one I've not seen before (ScionPC) which seems to address your marital status issues though I've not tried the software.
For the time being, all my research is ending up here on WikiTree. The Bio space lets me track all my bits and bobs with all formatting left to me.