Catherine Evans sent me a find:
FROM MARRIAGE RECORDS BOUTETOURT VA. JOSEPH VANMETER MARRIED SEPT 7, 1815 TO DAMARIS LOCKLAND, DAUGHTER OF ELISHA LOCKLAND
but I can't find a Joseph in WikiTree that fits.
Does anyone have a Joseph VanMeter (or other spelling/styling) who married a Damaris in their tree?
Cheers, Liz