I think Mary Wallen left the Trail of Tears in Oklahoma. She wound up in St Francois, Missouri, just as this Eliza Grider (who is possibly her daughter) did. The dates of Eliza's birth and death are correct, but it shows her married to a Kirkpatrick. She might have been married more than once. She would have also married a Hamilton if she is my relative. All the other details are so close that I think she must be the relative I am looking for. Eliza I am looking for was born July 19, 1843 (or 41), died August 3, 1903.