I have a confirmed 2nd cousin match with my Grandmothers nephew in the Ancestry website. He is not on Wiki-tree and given that he is living, I am not inclined to add his details as this should be up to him. Can I, however add him as an initial and make his profile black so the DNA link shows up? I am trying to confirm my data without breaching anyones privacy or protocols.
If this does not work, can we have a new icon which says "DNA confirmed outside Wikitree"