I have found the Kennedy's died and buried in Yalobusha County, MS many years later. Nothing found on Eliza prior to her in the Calhoun County 1880 Census. The Westmorelands, actually told me she was a servant in this house and was freed and took all her children with her. She married in Marshall County, MS in 1881 to George Shaw, they moved back to Calhoun County, and can be found there in 1900 Census. Children from both marriages are also found in this household.
Just still don't know who her oldest son was. Even the Westmorelands and Bobo's can tell you her oldest son, whose name they do not know was the father of a list of children.....but no one can remember his name, and I have not been able to find any leads on his name.