Hi, Lisa.
I am afraid you will need to edit your profile so that your LNAB is Wines. That is last name at birth. Then leave Gilbert as current last name. You can continue to use Lisa Gilbert here on g2g.
I don't know much about the DNA part. I assume you put in all the test results. The potential relatives do not populate immediately. I think it is a program that runs once a day. Maybe, I don't really know.
Welcome
Maureen