i know where Harriet is buried and have visited her resting place several times. I also have a 'photo of her.
My grandfather adored her. His parents were too busy as Captains in the Salvation Army Corps , Silverhill , St. Leonards.
Harriet married into the Milsted family of Tenterden, Farriers, Shopkeepers, Gunmakers, Brewers, Licencees of The Woolpack. Coach proprietors. Important members of town of Tenterden for over 500 years . They made the ironworks for Hy 8th's warships, and. installed one of the very first petrol pumps when the car replaced horse and carriage. Some of their famous neighbours included Horatia Ward (Nelson's daughter by Lady Hamilton. She married the vicar of St. Mildreds Tenterden.) and Sir David Frost of TV fame. . Harriet's grandmother was Ann Harmer of Bodiam a descendant of Jocelyn de Harmer who became Earl of Hardwick. I have traced the family back to the early 1500's Dorothy .